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ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
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Posted - 2013.09.24 07:51:00 -
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Alright. THIS wasn't directed TO me, but I was witness to this, and I would call these "KIDS" out, but in all, it would just harm the victim more. But this is something I want to bring to you, the adult side of this community.
I got a friend into this game who is gay. Now, I'm not saying cartwheels, rainbows coming from his arse, but he does enjoy the company of men.
WELL, hes stayed with the game, and enjoyed it properly. Got him self, now, i think close to 12m SP. So, yes, invested some time into this, got him into " my corp" ( I use this term loosely now) and have had some great time.
All was fine till, after a while, he's noticed a large some of the community ( with in game) and with in the corp of some words going around. He doesnt like people screaming F.A.G. in an unfavorable term. As in, you get killed and hear "F'ing F.A.G.". Let me repeat, with in game, he hears people scream this and is getting offended by this. Even from this corp I spoke of earlier.
A town hall meeting has come up and I brought this up. The response "He should learn to HTFU and learn to get over it", to as far as "This is how I talk. If he doesn't like this, he should leave" My response to this was immediately, "You are justifying being an a-hole. You don't want to change how you talk around this guy, but would much rather continue the way you talk, not in regard to how you might actually offend this guy"
Well, you can see how long he stayed with in the corp. I even left friends and family to even follow him on his journey in being blue. And guess what, this wasn't just there, even in other corps, but it did do something.
The previous corp, the group caught wind of why he left, and it had others spool up and raise their hands saying "this also offends me"
One of them was black. I then received a message outside of game saying "F'ng 'n' ( yes, the n-bomb) should learn to grow up, and HTFU because life is unfair, people ingeneral, in the real world are going to talk to him like that and he should just learn to adjust"
This continued back and forth down to it ending in being called a "n-bomb lover" ( please replace n-bomb for a more or less, 6 letter word starting with n, a few g's, and a 'R')
Well, the corp soon got them selves a holding cell for new players, to teach and mold new players. Cohoerted my friend to rejoin, under new management, and rather a good guy did talk him back in, including the black guy from before.
Long story short, someone in that first corp told me they are now planing on closing this previous corp because they let both of these two in, because of how they left this first corp ( which I seen them leave under the terms of "I'm tired of hearing my sexuality being constantly used in a negative text, and treatment of race ( including N-bombing) is not acceptable as an adult."
So, I come to you guys, he doesnt know the corp he is in, is going to nuke, and take out some rather good names from the corp as...as far as I can tell, because of being a child.
So I ask you, was anyone being in the wrong here? Should I make this corp public ( I won't but I gotta ask)
I'm just left baffled, that someone can confront another, asking them to quit and they can just "I don't want to change, it is YOU that has to change"
I felt I needed to share and start making this public.
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ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
0
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Posted - 2013.09.24 07:54:00 -
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Oh and while I am at it " hearing"
"This isn't a girl friend corp" one more time because a female squads up, let alone is asked to join, I thank you plenty for scaring off the female base in this game. I mean, it is small as is, lets remove maybe another 10% off already.
No.... you talking like this just makes you sound like a sexist/racist bigot. |
Flamesea
Shadow Company HQ
26
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:07:00 -
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Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
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Rynoceros
Rise Of Old Dudes
798
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:09:00 -
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Call 'em out.
They have no problem voicing their opinion to one of us, why not everyone? They should be just as proud of who they are in their bigotry. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
2
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:11:00 -
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Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules? |
Kaltos Darksbane
KNIGHTZ OF THE ROUND Public Disorder.
28
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:15:00 -
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The problem for your friend is that this is a MMO. Where everyone is behind a character name. With this they feel free to let loose with all sorts of diatribe that they would never use elsewhere. This will never change.
It is definately a two-sided coin though.
One side would be that everyone agrees to be sensitive to others beliefs/sexual orientation/etc...all in the name of getting along.
The other side is why should the majority change for those in the minority?
I guess for you and your friend it comes down to how much you like Dust as a game. Is it worth putting up with it to enjoy the game or do your ideologies take precedence. Only you can decide.
For me it goes along with hate/rage mail. I certainly don't like being called names but I recognize this is a game and casually ignore it as there is no real threat behind it. I could certainly report them but I don't see it being truly effective as it wouldn't change that persons behavior one bit. |
pegasis prime
BIG BAD W0LVES
1020
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:16:00 -
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Racism and homophobia have absolutly no place anywhare as far as im concerned. Normally when it comes to nameing and shaming im not in favour but when someone is consistantly racist or homophobic then id gladly name and shame. These kids ned to be educated or at least informed that such oppinions should be kept to themselves in adult comunitys. If your friend has any issues concerning homophobia then get them to report the partys involved. |
Chibi Andy
Forsaken Immortals Top Men.
550
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:17:00 -
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our corp doesnt have players who talk down to others even towards enemies etc etc
we're one of the more gentlemanly corp |
Iron Wolf Saber
Den of Swords
8794
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:18:00 -
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Call em out and mute them.
Xbox has been socially testing this and its going to go into effect on the 360. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
4
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:20:00 -
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I know this is just calling a red "gay" but they where offended, brought it up and was asked to "HTFU".
I know this might be taking this too far, but... I feel they were wronged, and obviously for leaving, they felt wronged. |
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Llast 326
An Arkhos
136
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:22:00 -
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Your friend is not alone in this oppressive and degrading actions and speech is not only offensive to many people regardless of orientation, gender identity ethnicity or any other difference that people can use to promote their own self loathing. Unfortunately i am going to bed right now and likely this thread will hit a low point and be locked before i get a chance to reply with a full sentiment. Good on you for advocating for your friend. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
4
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:25:00 -
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Well, when this does get locked, by what, I haven't a clue. Either or, your actions are not only judged, but graded.
Honestly, I hope he can join a good strong corp and take this other one down.
When the inevitable lock comes in, I do thank you all for the responses past, present, and future. And those who cannot post when it is locked. |
Flamesea
Shadow Company HQ
29
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:25:00 -
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ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules?
Yes we do. |
Kaltos Darksbane
KNIGHTZ OF THE ROUND Public Disorder.
28
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:30:00 -
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This corp should be outed just so others like your friend will know about this beforehand so they can either steer clear or at least be informed if they do join that corp. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
5
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:31:00 -
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Flamesea wrote:ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules? Yes we do. Mind if i message you some time in game? Under a different name?
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Michael Arck
Anubis Prime Syndicate
1197
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:37:00 -
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Kaltos Darksbane wrote:This corp should be outed just so others like your friend will know about this beforehand so they can either steer clear or at least be informed if they do join that corp.
Ha, but doesn't the OP describe 92 percent of the corporations in New Eden? |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1508
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:41:00 -
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honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it.
good luck. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
5
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:46:00 -
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Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it. True
But say you where in a group, you said this or that. But he came to you saying "can you cut it out while i am around"
would you? at least apologize for saying it?
The point of the post was that, HE DID ask for it to quit, and was called "An overly sensitive *****" |
Robert JD Niewiadomski
NULLIMPEX INC
553
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:51:00 -
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@OP, you can't demand from people to have integrity in a "kill-or-be-killed" game. But you can cultivate integrity in yourself. Be the change you want to see. The rest will come with it. It won't happen overnight. Have courage to forgive and have courage to keep your integrity at all time...
If you think it sounds "soft"... try to be nice to other people despite what they do to you. Just for one day. You will see then the "soft" way is to not be nice... It's cool to not be "soft" imho |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:52:00 -
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Here are the guys at "Extra Credit" on harassment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dt9GwmOWoqo |
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Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 08:59:00 -
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ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it. True But say you where in a group, you said this or that. But he came to you saying "can you cut it out while i am around" would you? at least apologize for saying it? The point of the post was that, HE DID ask for it to quit, and was called "An overly sensitive *****"
nah, I wouldnt apologize for it, I really mean to call the idiots a ******* ******* in any way I can think of.
I don't give in to sensitive people or pressure, I speak my mind, if your offended by it, your best chance it so mute me. if you ask respectfully and mannered then yeah, il call the assholes something else but I wont change the way I talk because someone is sensitive to it. that honestly not my problem.
people have their own vocabulary and I have mine. if what I say means something different to you than it does to me, eventually wel both adapt to what each other's meaning behinds words are.
it seems that he lacks confidence in himself because of this, that's what im getting out of it.
when I talk, the last thing I have in mind is disrespect other than when im trying to insult someone lol.
honestly though, your asking this from a community of ******* kids from call of duty that are still in school. not going to be possible for the community to do what you want unless you parent each and every one of them.
this community is the shittiest community I have ever come across, you learn to ignore the kids and continue on to do what matters for you. |
Flamesea
Shadow Company HQ
31
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:02:00 -
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ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules? Yes we do. Mind if i message you some time in game? Under a different name?
Sure you can mail/ add me. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:05:00 -
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Void Echo wrote:ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it. True But say you where in a group, you said this or that. But he came to you saying "can you cut it out while i am around" would you? at least apologize for saying it? The point of the post was that, HE DID ask for it to quit, and was called "An overly sensitive *****" nah, I wouldnt apologize for it, I really mean to call the idiots a ******* ******* in any way I can think of. I don't give in to sensitive people or pressure, I speak my mind, if your offended by it, your best chance it so mute me. if you ask respectfully and mannered then yeah, il call the assholes something else but I wont change the way I talk because someone is sensitive to it. that honestly not my problem. people have their own vocabulary and I have mine. if what I say means something different to you than it does to me, eventually wel both adapt to what each other's meaning behinds words are. it seems that he lacks confidence in himself because of this, that's what im getting out of it.
I was never asked on this, I honestly want to see what is said out there.
But as you said, say I was this individual, and you were talking much unnecessary trash to the enemy. If I asked in such a way that was neither demeaning of you, or my cause, you would pipe down. Or at least find a new one.
I can careless of swearing. And honestly, I didnt ever have a problem of using "gay" as an insult.
Then I was talked a bit on it, so... kinda asking about. |
Beld Errmon
Evocatius
877
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:07:00 -
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As a openly gay gamer for the last 17 years all i can say is you've just gotta get over the little stuff, rarely do ppl say these things with actual malice towards the ppl they might be insulting, sometimes they do, then if you wish you document it and report it.
Your friend seems to have the right idea though, if a quite word doesn't change it just move on these games are huge and there is always welcoming groups that don't care or even openly welcome ppl with diverse backgrounds and ways of life, smart people know there is strength in diversity.
People would be wise to remember that what they say in game is kept in vast logs, in eve a copy of the chat logs is kept on your computer, players would have years of convos, here we don't have them or perhaps we don't have access to them, but rest assured CCP does, and if you cross the line they will if prompted kick you in the butt. |
Monkey MAC
killer taxi company General Tso's Alliance
667
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:08:00 -
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Name and shame them my friend, watch as the community prepares for war against the clan! Swearing and the odd competive stuff "w*****r" is generally accepted, but I think that racial, homophobic, or religious slurs are uncalled for and unnecessary.
Unfortunately we live in an odd world and some people lack alot of the better attributes, I think I speak on behalf of the entire community when I extend my deepdst sympathies for your friend and I hope he continues to enjoy the game and the positive side of the community. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:08:00 -
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ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it. True But say you where in a group, you said this or that. But he came to you saying "can you cut it out while i am around" would you? at least apologize for saying it? The point of the post was that, HE DID ask for it to quit, and was called "An overly sensitive *****" nah, I wouldnt apologize for it, I really mean to call the idiots a ******* ******* in any way I can think of. I don't give in to sensitive people or pressure, I speak my mind, if your offended by it, your best chance it so mute me. if you ask respectfully and mannered then yeah, il call the assholes something else but I wont change the way I talk because someone is sensitive to it. that honestly not my problem. people have their own vocabulary and I have mine. if what I say means something different to you than it does to me, eventually wel both adapt to what each other's meaning behinds words are. it seems that he lacks confidence in himself because of this, that's what im getting out of it. I was never asked on this, I honestly want to see what is said out there. But as you said, say I was this individual, and you were talking much unnecessary trash to the enemy. If I asked in such a way that was neither demeaning of you, or my cause, you would pipe down. Or at least find a new one. I can careless of swearing. And honestly, I didnt ever have a problem of using "gay" as an insult. Then I was talked a bit on it, so... kinda asking about.
basically yeah. I don't give a **** about sensitivity, it means nothing to me. hel learn to stand up for himself if he feels so insulted eventually. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:10:00 -
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Beld Errmon wrote:As a openly gay gamer for the last 17 years all i can say is you've just gotta get over the little stuff, rarely do ppl say these things with actual malice towards the ppl they might be insulting, sometimes they do, then if you wish you document it and report it.
Your friend seems to have the right idea though, if a quite word doesn't change it just move on these games are huge and there is always welcoming groups that don't care or even openly welcome ppl with diverse backgrounds and ways of life, smart people know there is strength in diversity.
People would be wise to remember that what they say in game is kept in vast logs, in eve a copy of the chat logs is kept on your computer, players would have years of convos, here we don't have them or perhaps we don't have access to them, but rest assured CCP does, and if you cross the line they will if prompted kick you in the butt.
(south park had a good episode regarding the use of homophobic insults and their context, my partner doesn't agree with it but I think they have point.)
this guy gets it |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:11:00 -
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Monkey MAC wrote:Name and shame them my friend, watch as the community prepares for war against the clan! Swearing and the odd competive stuff "w*****r" is generally accepted, but I think that racial, homophobic, or religious slurs are uncalled for and unnecessary.
Unfortunately we live in an odd world and some people lack alot of the better attributes, I think I speak on behalf of the entire community when I extend my deepdst sympathies for your friend and I hope he continues to enjoy the game and the positive side of the community.
you don't speak for me, iv already stated my view on this. |
Beld Errmon
Evocatius
879
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:17:00 -
[29] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:this guy gets it
Had any more awkward conversations with female gamers void? even months after negative feedback I still remember that hilarious convo you were having when i joined squad, has anyone let you in on the faux pas that is asking a lady her age yet? |
Monkey MAC
killer taxi company General Tso's Alliance
667
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:17:00 -
[30] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Monkey MAC wrote:Name and shame them my friend, watch as the community prepares for war against the clan! Swearing and the odd competive stuff "w*****r" is generally accepted, but I think that racial, homophobic, or religious slurs are uncalled for and unnecessary.
Unfortunately we live in an odd world and some people lack alot of the better attributes, I think I speak on behalf of the entire community when I extend my deepdst sympathies for your friend and I hope he continues to enjoy the game and the positive side of the community. you don't speak for me, iv already stated my view on this.
Your right my bad, on behalf of the decent community, I extend my deepest sympathies! |
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ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:20:00 -
[31] - Quote
Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer. |
Moselder Telend
Pure Innocence. EoN.
1
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:22:00 -
[32] - Quote
I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:22:00 -
[33] - Quote
Beld Errmon wrote:Void Echo wrote:this guy gets it Had any more awkward conversations with female gamers void? even months after negative feedback I still remember that hilarious convo you were having when i joined squad, has anyone let you in on the faux pas that is asking a lady her age yet?
LOL I remember that, I told all of you, I was just ******* joking... I felt bad after that because I chased away a possible new friend and killer....
but oh well.. I tend to stay away from everyone as I told you guys, I don't talk to hardly anyone with voice.
also... **** you |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:23:00 -
[34] - Quote
Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******.
you can blame the liberals for that bullshit |
Monkey MAC
killer taxi company General Tso's Alliance
667
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:24:00 -
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ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer.
Your right, I get wound up incredibly easily! [:ugh] Especially when the troll bait is so easy! |
Beld Errmon
Evocatius
879
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:24:00 -
[36] - Quote
I didn't realise you'd chased her off, now its even more funny :D |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:25:00 -
[37] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer.
no, go on the news and into politics... they are the worst sides of humanity that there is, here its just words all ****, there, they dictate how you live your lives. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:25:00 -
[38] - Quote
Beld Errmon wrote:I didn't realise you'd chased her off, now its even more funny :D
like I said... **** you..
lol but she said that she knew I was joking, but oh well. **** you |
Moselder Telend
Pure Innocence. EoN.
1
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:25:00 -
[39] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit
I do, liberals are awful. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1511
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:27:00 -
[40] - Quote
Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit I do, liberals are awful.
I also forgot to mention the state of the economy and how weak America has become. |
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Beld Errmon
Evocatius
880
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:29:00 -
[41] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit
Well I think you can blame empathy more than any political persuasion, nothing wrong with it, but shrill nagging and judgement is counter productive, you can lead a horse to water but you probably shouldn't try and drown it. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:29:00 -
[42] - Quote
I'm signing off for the night. Thank you for all the replies. Both sides of this discussion.
Also, trying to keep up on this topic when I can only post every so many minutes (thanks PS2 bomber for ruining this), this is pretty hard.
I again thank you all on this.
Though I do what to add.
People do get offended by words. I don't know about you, but we have gotten into fist fights over words. Have you not been irritated by the mom that wont watch her child in a grocery store? That obstinate child who is just screaming over something? Not over hear a conversation with a dude with his girl? You can hear it in his tone of voice that he just verbally slapped her?
So in other words, hearing someone call another (F.A.G.) even if it wasn't directed at you, can be a little disheartening. Why in previous cultures this was seen as bad, cultures/ civilization that are now long since dead and gone, this was seen as bad among them, but some how, in our more of a modern society that insulting ones way of life...is ok.... |
Moselder Telend
Pure Innocence. EoN.
1
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 09:31:00 -
[43] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit I do, liberals are awful. I also forgot to mention the state of the economy and how weak America has become.
Makes me glad im not american but I feel bad for them, how far they have fallen since the 20's |
Moselder Telend
Pure Innocence. EoN.
1
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 09:33:00 -
[44] - Quote
ponies test wrote:I'm signing off for the night. Thank you for all the replies. Both sides of this discussion.
Also, trying to keep up on this topic when I can only post every so many minutes (thanks PS2 bomber for ruining this), this is pretty hard.
I again thank you all on this.
Though I do what to add.
People do get offended by words. I don't know about you, but we have gotten into fist fights over words. Have you not been irritated by the mom that wont watch her child in a grocery store? That obstinate child who is just screaming over something? Not over hear a conversation with a dude with his girl? You can hear it in his tone of voice that he just verbally slapped her?
So in other words, hearing someone call another (F.A.G.) even if it wasn't directed at you, can be a little disheartening. Why in previous cultures this was seen as bad, cultures/ civilization that are now long since dead and gone, this was seen as bad among them, but some how, in our more of a modern society that insulting ones way of life...is ok....
It doesnt bother me in the least, I just ignore it, not my problem. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 09:33:00 -
[45] - Quote
your talking about other cultures to the gamer community now...
were basically one of the most hated communities because we offer a scape goat from reality, just like music did, comic books did, and movies. now its gamers.
weve got a long road ahead of us, and during that time, we need to eliminate the sensitivity ****. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 09:34:00 -
[46] - Quote
Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit I do, liberals are awful. I also forgot to mention the state of the economy and how weak America has become. Makes me glad im not american but I feel bad for them, how far they have fallen since the 20's
I hate the way my country has gone since Obama was first elected.
in the past century, we were THE super power of the planet, now Obama has given that role to Russia. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:35:00 -
[47] - Quote
Monkey MAC wrote:ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer. Your right, I get wound up incredibly easily! [:ugh] Especially when the troll bait is so easy! I can't post often enough to police my own thread.
Either or, I'm off for some sleep. If this thread is locked, I blame Void. Even if he didn't cause it, I'm just gonna blame him.
No reason really, like how I blame him for Panda's being endangered or male pattern baldness, I do place this one on him
Though, speaking of sensitivity, when we can be seen as adults. This medium that is.
Look, we cant even show females in a positive roll with out being 15 year old boys who just found dads Playboy stash |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:36:00 -
[48] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Monkey MAC wrote:ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer. Your right, I get wound up incredibly easily! [:ugh] Especially when the troll bait is so easy! I can't post often enough to police my own thread. Either or, I'm off for some sleep. If this thread is locked, I blame Void. Even if he didn't cause it, I'm just gonna blame him. No reason really, like how I blame him for Panda's being endangered or male pattern baldness, I do place this one on him Though, speaking of sensitivity, when we can be seen as adults. This medium that is. Look, we cant even show females in a positive roll with out being 15 year old boys who just found dads Playboy stash
..... -_- I didn't start ****... |
Beld Errmon
Evocatius
880
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:39:00 -
[49] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:
I hate the way my country has gone since Obama was first elected.
in the past century, we were THE super power of the planet, now Obama has given that role to Russia.
I think you need to start another thread, because you're wildly off topic. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
11
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:40:00 -
[50] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:ponies test wrote:Monkey MAC wrote:ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer. Your right, I get wound up incredibly easily! [:ugh] Especially when the troll bait is so easy! I can't post often enough to police my own thread. Either or, I'm off for some sleep. If this thread is locked, I blame Void. Even if he didn't cause it, I'm just gonna blame him. No reason really, like how I blame him for Panda's being endangered or male pattern baldness, I do place this one on him Though, speaking of sensitivity, when we can be seen as adults. This medium that is. Look, we cant even show females in a positive roll with out being 15 year old boys who just found dads Playboy stash ..... -_- I didn't start ****... Panda.... the blood of millions of Pandas are because of you!
I'm just exhausted from too long at work and my midnight sip is kicking in.
No hard feelings. Just me being me saying that.
Also, I owe you a tank.
Cheers
P.s - I don't need to start another topic. I just need to wake up early and regain control of it ( if there is anything left)
I'll be on Dust on another toon. I hope to see you guys on the battle field. |
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Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:40:00 -
[51] - Quote
Beld Errmon wrote:Void Echo wrote:
I hate the way my country has gone since Obama was first elected.
in the past century, we were THE super power of the planet, now Obama has given that role to Russia.
I think you need to start another thread, because you're wildly off topic.
I know, which is why I stopped talking about it genius |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:42:00 -
[52] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:ponies test wrote:Monkey MAC wrote:ponies test wrote:Please no fighting. There is enough negativity out there, and just trying to shed some light and get some insight is going to cause this, this shows me...
You are showing us some of the worst sides humanity has to offer. Your right, I get wound up incredibly easily! [:ugh] Especially when the troll bait is so easy! I can't post often enough to police my own thread. Either or, I'm off for some sleep. If this thread is locked, I blame Void. Even if he didn't cause it, I'm just gonna blame him. No reason really, like how I blame him for Panda's being endangered or male pattern baldness, I do place this one on him Though, speaking of sensitivity, when we can be seen as adults. This medium that is. Look, we cant even show females in a positive roll with out being 15 year old boys who just found dads Playboy stash ..... -_- I didn't start ****... Panda.... the blood of millions of Pandas are because of you! I'm just exhausted from too long at work and my midnight sip is kicking in. No hard feelings. Just me being me saying that. Also, I owe you a tank. Cheers P.s - I don't need to start another topic. I just need to wake up early and regain control of it ( if there is anything left) I'll be on Dust on another toon. I hope to see you guys on the battle field.
give me 1.5 mil isk and were even |
Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
21
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:44:00 -
[53] - Quote
Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******.
Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious.
As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you.
I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't.
I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP. |
Blaze Ashra
Bragian Order Amarr Empire
7
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:46:00 -
[54] - Quote
I don't want to sound mean or anything but I honestly don't care enough to be offended by any of those insults. I have a much, much darker view of the world than most people but I also get the bittersweet knowledge that in the scheme of things it's not worth it to to be upset over. |
Moselder Telend
Pure Innocence. EoN.
1
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:47:00 -
[55] - Quote
Iago Templar wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious. As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you. I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't. I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP.
I find it sad that you are so weak then, where I grew uo if you needed someone to stand by you were kicked down. Too many people in this day in age have become weak little babies. Grow up, if you cant deal with a word then dont use the internet and dont leave the plastic bubble you must live in.
This goes for anyone and everyone. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 09:48:00 -
[56] - Quote
Iago Templar wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious. As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you. I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't. I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP.
by saying that people SHOULD be sensitive because of political correctness will get hardly anyone to stand with you.
political correctness is a ******* joke, hands down. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:49:00 -
[57] - Quote
Blaze Ashra wrote:I don't want to sound mean or anything but I honestly don't care enough to be offended by any of those insults. I have a much, much darker view of the world than most people but I also get the bittersweet knowledge that in the scheme of things it's not worth it to to be upset over.
your view on the world will never be more hateful than mine.
just to let you know. |
SCAT mania
Seraphim Initiative..
402
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:50:00 -
[58] - Quote
I must say I use that word alot.. Im Irish it's just how we some of us talk. I don't mean it in offence. One of my mates swings the other way. we try not to say it too much around him. He understand though that it is never directed it at him |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1515
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Posted - 2013.09.24 09:55:00 -
[59] - Quote
SCAT mania wrote:I must say I use that word alot.. Im Irish it's just how we some of us talk. I don't mean it in offence. One of my mates swings the other way. we try not to say it too much around him. He understand though that it is never directed it at him
luck of the Irish ey.
im part irish on my great grandfathers side lol and I always say that phrase about irish jokes. |
ChromeBreaker
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
1265
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 10:03:00 -
[60] - Quote
Your all strange... F.ags are smokes...?
I know i sware a bit on coms, its all just banter when a blueberry drives off in my tank etc. But If someone takes issue with that its not a big deal for me to stop... Just a game n all that. |
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Blaze Ashra
Bragian Order Amarr Empire
7
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Posted - 2013.09.24 10:10:00 -
[61] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Blaze Ashra wrote:I don't want to sound mean or anything but I honestly don't care enough to be offended by any of those insults. I have a much, much darker view of the world than most people but I also get the bittersweet knowledge that in the scheme of things it's not worth it to to be upset over. your view on the world will never be more hateful than mine. just to let you know.
My world view isn't hateful at all. |
ponies test
Seituoda Taskforce Command Caldari State
12
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Posted - 2013.09.24 10:14:00 -
[62] - Quote
I want to quote that video I posted on page 1
It is like we gave the school bully access to the intercom and told him that the WHOLE school would and could hear anything he said. NO CONSEQUENCES |
Monkey MAC
killer taxi company General Tso's Alliance
672
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Posted - 2013.09.24 10:22:00 -
[63] - Quote
SCAT mania wrote:I must say I use that word alot.. Im Irish it's just how we some of us talk. I don't mean it in offence. One of my mates swings the other way. we try not to say it too much around him. He understand though that it is never directed it at him
Thats all the op was saying, people realise your gonna use harsh language, It can be quite distressing sometimes, all thats really needed is for people to consider the feelings of others before they open their mouths! Not to mention their are plenty of derogatory terms that aren't a slur.
Political correctness is a different matter, political correctness is like removing words from song deslite it having a different meaning. The ones who scream for political correctness are the opposite side to some of the people here. There is a middle ground easily achievable by having a little forethought. |
Syeven Reed
Inanimate Objects
24
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 11:13:00 -
[64] - Quote
Call them out. If they were to move, I don't want them in my corp. |
Nocturnal Soul
Immortal Retribution
637
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Posted - 2013.09.24 11:21:00 -
[65] - Quote
I'd trade one good fair(as in nice) player over any proto stomping ass holes anyday |
Fizzer94
L.O.T.I.S.
218
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 11:41:00 -
[66] - Quote
Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:Void Echo wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. you can blame the liberals for that bullshit I do, liberals are awful. I also forgot to mention the state of the economy and how weak America has become. Makes me glad im not american but I feel bad for them, how far they have fallen since the 20's **** the '20s. The late '40s until the late '60s were the U.S.'s best years. All we had in the '20s was prohibition, and crime caused by prohibition. The '30s were even worse though, with the Great Depression and whatnot. |
Mobius Wyvern
Guardian Solutions DARKSTAR ARMY
3668
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Posted - 2013.09.24 11:47:00 -
[67] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules? If any Corp doesn't they aren't worth your time. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1518
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:00:00 -
[68] - Quote
Mobius Wyvern wrote:ponies test wrote:Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
I take it your corp has these kind of rules? If any Corp doesn't they aren't worth your time.
the serious corps do at least. |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
277
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:06:00 -
[69] - Quote
some people are incapable of being civilized sadly those people tend to flock to video games |
Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
22
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:07:00 -
[70] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Iago Templar wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious. As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you. I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't. I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP. by saying that people SHOULD be sensitive because of political correctness will get hardly anyone to stand with you. political correctness is a ******* joke, hands down. regardless of background, if your weak and appear weak, in the real world, your going to be kicked to the curve. being gay doesn't entitle you to special treatment, regardless of your views. I would give you some respect if you didn't expect or want everyone to treat you like a child.
A) I am not a child nor would I wish to be treated like one.
B) I did not ask people to be sensitive I asked people to stand up/speak out against people who use derogatory terms in an obviously mean way.
C) Being Gay does not make one weak if anything it makes you stronger and more able to stand up to idiots.
D) I don't want special treatment I wish to be treated like any other person and mocked for my inability to hit someone with a gun not for my preference to have sex with them.
E) Get some Gay friends and talk to them you'll find in general we're very nice people who just want to be able to play our games without being mocked for being who we are, just as you shouldn't call a black person n****r or an asian person "slanty eyed". I promise you we don't want to have sex with you if thats what you're worried about, I guarantee that.
F) Back to your mums basement Troll. ;-) |
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Keri Starlight
Psygod9 D.E.F.I.A.N.C.E
457
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:10:00 -
[71] - Quote
It's so sad that our society (well, maybe "society" is not the best term, since I would say this actaully extends to the whole planet) is so used to refer to sexuality or race as an insult.
It's so... withering.
However, I have an idea of the ****storm that a gamer woman runs into when playing online games. Personally (as a woman), I don't really want to get a microphone to talk with people. I know it would be helpful for some games (like this one) to coordinate with my team, but I really don't feel motiveted to use a mic when I play.
In the end, I would use it just a few times, because there is no way I would talk in a mic during a public game, knowing of what generally happens to my friends.
If people don't insult you or tell you to STFU, it's because the whole thing is getting very creepy.
Sometimes I feel so disgusted because of what happens in the voice chat (DUST is not the case, but there are quite enough women on Call of Duty and some other game) that I feel so bad and I can't have fun any longer. I just turn my PS3 off. |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:11:00 -
[72] - Quote
pegasis prime wrote:Racism and homophobia have absolutly no place anywhare as far as im concerned. Normally when it comes to nameing and shaming im not in favour but when someone is consistantly racist or homophobic then id gladly name and shame. These kids ned to be educated or at least informed that such oppinions should be kept to themselves in adult comunitys. If your friend has any issues concerning homophobia then get them to report the partys involved. ya seriously go ahead and splatter their names all over here just like they splattered your friends sexuality all over dust..this is a video game racism and homophobia have no place here only killing. |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:13:00 -
[73] - Quote
Keri Starlight wrote:It's so sad that our society (well, maybe "society" is not the best term, since I would say this actaully extends to the whole planet) is so used to refer to sexuality or race as an insult.
It's so... withering.
However, I have an idea of the ****storm that a gamer woman runs into when playing online games. Personally (as a woman), I don't really want to get a microphone to talk with people. I know it would be helpful for some games (like this one) to coordinate with my team, but I really don't feel motiveted to use a mic when I play.
In the end, I would use it just a few times, because there is no way I would talk in a mic during a public game, knowing of what generally happens to my friends.
If people doesn't insult you or tell you to STFU, it's because the whole thing is getting very creepy.
Sometimes I feel so disgusted because of what happens in the voice chat (DUST is not the case, but there are quite enough women on Call of Duty and some other game) that I feel so bad and I can't have fun any longer. I just turn my PS3 off.
my voice is reserved for my corp and friends lol gamers in general are assholes and very crude |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:20:00 -
[74] - Quote
America is a broken country as is our economy but it certainly isnt the liberals fault more like the upper class with their bought out 15% tax bracket. and the war mongering republicans so sad to watch a country that used to be for the middle and lower class go against the very ideas it was founded upon..but America like every other democracy has reached its future destination,and become the corrupt lie that every democracy before turned into. this change has nothing to do with liberal's or the evolution of our culture...useing politically correct terms did not cause america's ruin the people robbing our government of revenue and then making choice to spend what revenue we have on war is why our country is broken. with the upper classes taxes half what the lower and middle classes lol america shares the fate of every democracy collapse and ruin revolution and change it is very sad humans never learn we never change and history continuously repeats itself. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1519
|
Posted - 2013.09.24 12:20:00 -
[75] - Quote
Iago Templar wrote:Void Echo wrote:Iago Templar wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious. As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you. I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't. I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP. by saying that people SHOULD be sensitive because of political correctness will get hardly anyone to stand with you. political correctness is a ******* joke, hands down. regardless of background, if your weak and appear weak, in the real world, your going to be kicked to the curve. being gay doesn't entitle you to special treatment, regardless of your views. I would give you some respect if you didn't expect or want everyone to treat you like a child. A) I am not a child nor would I wish to be treated like one. B) I did not ask people to be sensitive I asked people to stand up/speak out against people who use derogatory terms in an obviously mean way. C) Being Gay does not make one weak if anything it makes you stronger and more able to stand up to idiots. D) I don't want special treatment I wish to be treated like any other person and mocked for my inability to hit someone with a gun not for my preference to have sex with them. E) Get some Gay friends and talk to them you'll find in general we're very nice people who just want to be able to play our games without being mocked for being who we are, just as you shouldn't call a black person n****r or an asian person "slanty eyed". I promise you we don't want to have sex with you if thats what you're worried about, I guarantee that. F) Back to your mums basement Troll. ;-)
A. Ok then, my view is that anyone who wants others to go by political correctness is a child.
B. that wont happen often, people are going to say hurtful things and even if your offended by them, they wont care if its not directed towards you.
C. im not saying being gay is making you weak, im not homophobic, im saying your appearing weak because your asking for people to stand by your side when your trying to fight something.
D. wanting people to stop using terms that offend you is wanting special treatment.
E. I have a gay uncle, I love him and respect him, im not homophobic in any way nor will I ever be, if your uncomfortable because of what people say (even though its not directed towards you), then good luck out there. i don't care what or who you ****, but if you try anything on me, your going to get in a fight.
F. we don't have a basement, and im 18 so of course I still live with my parents, im barely in my 1st semester of college after I graduated last spring. |
dent 308
Subdreddit Test Alliance Please Ignore
1885
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:21:00 -
[76] - Quote
Serious corps do have policies in place for handling this sort of crap.
Think about it from the management side of the fence for a few minutes.
Letting sperglords **** all over comms and everyone on comms can drive away players. This hurts combat effectiveness.
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Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1519
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:25:00 -
[77] - Quote
Mortedeamor wrote:America is a broken country as is our economy but it certainly isnt the liberals fault more like the upper class with their bought out 15% tax bracket. and the war mongering republicans so sad to watch a country that used to be for the middle and lower class go against the very ideas it was founded upon..but America like every other democracy has reached its future destination,and become the corrupt lie that every democracy before turned into. this change has nothing to do with liberal's or the evolution of our culture...useing politically correct terms did not cause america's ruin the people robbing our government of revenue and then making choice to spend what revenue we have on war is why our country is broken. with the upper classes taxes half what the lower and middle classes lol america shares the fate of every democracy collapse and ruin revolution and change it is very sad humans never learn we never change and history continuously repeats itself.
i will only bring it up again once, of your too ignorant to actually read it and look into it more, then oh ******* well.
since Obama was 1st elected, our taxes have gone up 10 fold, our debt was increased by him alone by more than 3 trillion $ in his 1st term, something no president has done in history.
if the corporations and higher ups didnt have to pay so many taxes, they would be laying people off in order to avoid bankruptcy.
the government should never be the place the people go for safety or financial security, the government should be the ones serving the citizens, not the citizens serving the government.
in the end, were in the declining of the american country because the people in power both liberal and conservative have gotten power hungry and are sucking more money from the corporations we need to give us jobs. resulting in another depression.
if you wont bother to look into any of what i just said are too ignorant to read it clearly and carefully then your truly a liberal and i have nothing else to say to you. |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:38:00 -
[78] - Quote
i never said anything about obama i certainly did not vote for him actually i didnt vote for mcain either i opt hen its a choice between 2 evils. and it doesnt matter who is president republican or democrat no one can say the state of our government could be laid on one parties shoulders. certainly not one preseidents soldier america was not ruined by one presidency but by a series of bad coices made by both parties because ultimatley in america what you represent personally does not matter in politics allt hat matter is what side you are on left or right..dems vote for dems just because they are dems and so do republicans..my only point in my statement was that the republicans of today represent the exact oposite of what their party was founded on ..the democrats of today represent the ideal america was founded on thee original republican party the VIRGINIAN REPUBLICAN PARTY (asa virginian i feal the need to point that out) represented the same ideals that the democrats do now and the republicans of today represent the same ideal the original federalists represent. the issue with america didnt begin with the presidency it began with congress one by one our representatives were bought out by mega corps...those congressmen have been holding open loopholes that allow people like obama and anyone in the upper class to LEGALLY PAY half of what any other American citizen pays. on top of that unlike the presidency our congressmen have 0 term limit meaning the same ******* who made assinine choice in world war 2 and vietnam is stil STILL REPRESENTING US ... they're are people in congress who have been voting for their personal taxes to be lowered while ours are raised for over 50 years ...THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OBAMA..and sadly their is nothing our figurehead of a president can do about that...it is highly unlikely that majority of the congress will ever vote to adjust and fix the tax system as that would cost them money...and it is highly unlikely our economy will ever not be in debt again. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1519
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:39:00 -
[79] - Quote
Mortedeamor wrote:i never said anything about obama i certainly did not vote for him actually i didnt vote for mcain either i opt hen its a choice between 2 evils. and it doesnt matter who is president republican or democrat no one can say the state of our government could be laid on one parties shoulders. certainly not one preseidents soldier america was not ruined by one presidency but by a series of bad coices made by both parties because ultimatley in america what you represent personally does not matter in politics allt hat matter is what side you are on left or right..dems vote for dems just because they are dems and so do republicans..my only point in my statement was that the republicans of today represent the exact oposite of what their party was founded on ..the democrats of today represent the ideal america was founded on thee original republican party the VIRGINIAN REPUBLICAN PARTY (asa virginian i feal the need to point that out) represented the same ideals that the democrats do now and the republicans of today represent the same ideal the original federalists represent. the issue with america didnt begin with the presidency it began with congress one by one our representatives were bought out by mega corps...those congressmen have been holding open loopholes that allow people like obama and anyone in the upper class to LEGALLY PAY half of what any other American citizen pays. on top of that unlike the presidency our congressmen have 0 term limit meaning the same ******* who made assinine choice in world war 2 and vietnam is stil STILL REPRESENTING US ... they're are people in congress who have been voting for their personal taxes to be lowered while ours are raised for over 50 years ...THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OBAMA..and sadly their is nothing our figurehead of a president can do about that...it is highly unlikely that majority of the congress will ever vote to adjust and fix the tax system as that would cost them money...and it is highly unlikely our economy will ever not be in debt again.
oh, i thought you were blaming everything on republicans and saying the demwits are the deliverers.
neither American party represents the original ideals that the country was founded on. they have been here for far too long for that to be possible, both sides have twisted and made their ideals based on the amrican ideals deformed.
but facts to show that Obama has put us more debt than any other presidents combined single handedly. |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:44:00 -
[80] - Quote
god no the original republicans were the party to be they were our founding father and while the current ones do not hold up to that..america cannot be blamed on just one party..and i personally think the president has less to do with our state than anything..obama being an idiot is irrelevant to our countries sad state :) i dont consider myself republican or democrat or liberal i consider myself a lover of history and an AMERICAN and i wish the rest of the politcal world would drop this right wing left wind bullshit and start making choice that are for the good of AMERICA and not for the good of their own politcal agenda's and checkbooks..sayign the republicans are responsible for americas state is like saying ccp blams is soley responisble for the state off dust (not true dust has slowly sucked over time and eveyone is to blame just like america |
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Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
28
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:47:00 -
[81] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Iago Templar wrote:Void Echo wrote:Iago Templar wrote:Moselder Telend wrote:I find it pretty sad that people get offended over words, especially when its not directed at them.
This world has gotten too politcally correct, no wonder the work place is becoming ******. Political correctness is there to help people feel comfortable its all too often used as a bad term. It has its place and derogatory remarks is one of those places. Words are offensive and hurtful when the meaning and the vitriol behind it is obvious. As a gay man myself I would rather have people stand with me if I have to call out a dickhead (calling a person a *** or a situation gay is a dickish thing to do.) Than do it on my own which is hard, upsetting and can be very lonely if no one else stands with you. I hope that more stand with me and others who are openly gay than don't. I hope that we, the community as a whole, can look past the idea of 'its only trolling' and block and report people like this for bullying to CCP. by saying that people SHOULD be sensitive because of political correctness will get hardly anyone to stand with you. political correctness is a ******* joke, hands down. regardless of background, if your weak and appear weak, in the real world, your going to be kicked to the curve. being gay doesn't entitle you to special treatment, regardless of your views. I would give you some respect if you didn't expect or want everyone to treat you like a child. A) I am not a child nor would I wish to be treated like one. B) I did not ask people to be sensitive I asked people to stand up/speak out against people who use derogatory terms in an obviously mean way. C) Being Gay does not make one weak if anything it makes you stronger and more able to stand up to idiots. D) I don't want special treatment I wish to be treated like any other person and mocked for my inability to hit someone with a gun not for my preference to have sex with them. E) Get some Gay friends and talk to them you'll find in general we're very nice people who just want to be able to play our games without being mocked for being who we are, just as you shouldn't call a black person n****r or an asian person "slanty eyed". I promise you we don't want to have sex with you if thats what you're worried about, I guarantee that. F) Back to your mums basement Troll. ;-) A. Ok then, my view is that anyone who wants others to go by political correctness is a child. B. that wont happen often, people are going to say hurtful things and even if your offended by them, they wont care if its not directed towards you. C. im not saying being gay is making you weak, im not homophobic, im saying your appearing weak because your asking for people to stand by your side when your trying to fight something. D. wanting people to stop using terms that offend you is wanting special treatment. E. I have a gay uncle, I love him and respect him, im not homophobic in any way nor will I ever be, if your uncomfortable because of what people say (even though its not directed towards you), then good luck out there. i don't care what or who you ****, but if you try anything on me, your going to get in a fight. F. we don't have a basement, and im 18 so of course I still live with my parents, im barely in my 1st semester of college after I graduated last spring.
I would speak with your Uncle then and ask him how he would react if someone in the street shouts F*G! at him or his partner. Someone shouting that in a game is a similar situation, when you are trying to live your life and someone says horrible things about you in a blatantly nasty manner its a jarring horrible experience.
I have had it a few times in the street, I have even been attacked for holding a boyfriends hand in the street so sometimes if I ask reasonably that people try to understand what it can be like for a gay person to live openly I would hope they would. I am glad that the majority in this thread understand and have stood with me either in giving tacit support to the sentiment of the thread or even liking mine and others posts.
I like to think of playing games as a fun pastime, but if I come in for abuse from someone for being myself, I am who I am after all ;-) then meh I'll mute them and mock them in open channel and report them if they send me hateful messages, then move on to the next round.
Maybe you are correct about the term 'political correctness' though its too loaded a term for knuckle dragging numptys who read and listen to too much right wing media. I'll call it something else then...
How about 'not being a prick'?
Good luck in college, may it open your mind a bit more.
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DS 10
Ancient Exiles
929
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:51:00 -
[82] - Quote
Admittedly, I drop the F-bomb in-game? Is it wrong? Definitely. I've been trying to remove it from my vocabulary, but it's just reaction now. Jacked up, I know. The thing is, I'm friends with several LGB members of the community, so I'm more careful when I'm with them. If one slips, I'll immediately apologize.
The only way to help this issue is to implement a corp policy and play with people you know. Online gaming has its fair share of people who are hateful just because they can hide behind their username.
Remember, if something is said that offends you, put in a support ticket with as many details as possible to include time, date, username, photo/video evidence if possible, etc. |
Rogatien Merc
Red Star. EoN.
1238
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:55:00 -
[83] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it. True But say you where in a group, you said this or that. But he came to you saying "can you cut it out while i am around" would you? at least apologize for saying it? The point of the post was that, HE DID ask for it to quit, and was called "An overly sensitive *****" I would never have said it and/or would probably stop, but that's just because I'm a nice guy and it's not in my everyday dictionary. I would also and think to myself "Jezus that douche needs to HTFU". The bedroom scene from Boondock Saints comes to mind... i.e. the term used does not have anything to do with ACTUAL sexuality and it doesn't even always connote homophobia. And if it does, who cares? One can hardly be oppressed in a video game. One can, however, oppress oneself through constantly pulling a victim card.
[Edit: ALSO, welcome your friend to the ******* internet. His feelings mean nothing here and tears just feed the trolls.] |
Mortedeamor
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
278
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:57:00 -
[84] - Quote
i have 2 gay uncles they get bashed all the time they take it in stride like every gay man ive ever met i mean when u grow hearing the same thing weather it is offensive or not it just doesnt bug you as much..i mean i seriously get more pissy over it than they do ive had both of em stop me from going to yell at someone for being that way..to be honest i am surprised your friend reacted so strongly. NOT SAYING WHAT THEY SAID WAS OK just that im suprised he reacted so strongly ..i have quiet a few gay friends and they are always if i freakd out everytime girl i would be always freaking out :p
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Rogatien Merc
Red Star. EoN.
1239
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Posted - 2013.09.24 12:59:00 -
[85] - Quote
Mortedeamor wrote:
i have 2 gay uncles they get bashed all the time...
I'm sorry when I read that I thought your post was going to be a Macklemore reference troll. |
Rogatien Merc
Red Star. EoN.
1239
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:06:00 -
[86] - Quote
Holy ******* ****. Did I just watch an EO video for Dust? This game is officially a job. Sigh... when is our next annual training? |
Poplo Furuya
Condotta Rouvenor Gallente Federation
717
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:11:00 -
[87] - Quote
More or less with you, OP, though I would also say a certain thickness of skin is something of a requirement. Asking folks to be more conscious of some of their language is not unreasonable by any stretch, even if they don't want to compromise too much they can be civil about it, make it known they mean nothing by it. That's something I guess.
An explosive refusal followed by ostracisation? Not so cool. When meeting such reactions I'm afraid there's nothing for it but cutting ties, it's unfortunate but there's no cure for being a ****.
I'm not sensitive, at least not in the conventional sense, it's just that the most pervasive ****-talkers are either wretched, miserable, edgy or immature more often than not. Not pleasant company. People who swear a lot are fine by me it's just ****-talking which is typically bundled with negative character traits. Sometimes it's just passing frustration but usually the pattern holds. That's my main reason for avoiding them. If the swearing is uncreative doubly so. Most of the people who swear a lot are really bad at swearing.
End of the day I believe in being civil and will try and hold myself to that. Keep it relaxed. Don't be a **** (unless it'd be really, really funny). Be decent to those around you. The standard tenets. While it'd be nice if most people were chill with each other gotta be prepared for that not to be the case. In this game you just gotta keep searching 'til you find those you are cool with. Wish you the best of luck in that. |
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CCP Logibro
C C P C C P Alliance
2199
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:19:00 -
[88] - Quote
I would just like to remind everyone that if you are being harassed that you should file a support ticket with the GMs. We take these matters very seriously. CCP Logibro // EVE Universe Community Team // Distributor of Nanites // Patron Saint of Logistics
@CCP_Logibro |
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Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
29
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:22:00 -
[89] - Quote
CCP Logibro wrote:I would just like to remind everyone that if you are being harassed that you should file a support ticket with the GMs. We take these matters very seriously.
Thanks Logibro fulfilling your support role again nicely. ^.^ |
Gorra Snell
The Unholy Legion Of DarkStar DARKSTAR ARMY
124
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:24:00 -
[90] - Quote
I have nothing to say on this subject that hasn't been said already, but its important, and I'm glad it's being discussed. |
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Mossellia Delt
Militaires Sans Jeux
400
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:27:00 -
[91] - Quote
About the word ***, most people dont use it to discribe gay people.
I point you here |
Godin Thekiller
Hellstorm Inc League of Infamy
867
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:28:00 -
[92] - Quote
It's a goddamn shame. I wish people wouldn't act like a child. SO what if people's gay? That's there's liking. That's like me not liking carrots as a snack, but liking grapes. |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1522
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:31:00 -
[93] - Quote
Iago Templar wrote:I would speak with your Uncle then and ask him how he would react if someone in the street shouts F*G! at him or his partner. Someone shouting that in a game is a similar situation, when you are trying to live your life and someone says horrible things about you in a blatantly nasty manner its a jarring horrible experience.
I have had it a few times in the street, I have even been attacked for holding a boyfriends hand in the street so sometimes if I ask reasonably that people try to understand what it can be like for a gay person to live openly I would hope they would. I am glad that the majority in this thread understand and have stood with me either in giving tacit support to the sentiment of the thread or even liking mine and others posts.
I like to think of playing games as a fun pastime, but if I come in for abuse from someone for being myself, I am who I am after all ;-) then meh I'll mute them and mock them in open channel and report them if they send me hateful messages, then move on to the next round.
Maybe you are correct about the term 'political correctness' though its too loaded a term for knuckle dragging numptys who read and listen to too much right wing media. I'll call it something else then...
How about 'not being a prick'?
Good luck in college, may it open your mind a bit more.
my uncle doesn't care about insults, he knows that people cant harm him by words. its called maturity.
im may come off as a prick but its not my problem. don't like my attitude, don't care. |
Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
29
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:35:00 -
[94] - Quote
Godin Thekiller wrote:It's a goddamn shame. I wish people wouldn't act like a child. SO what if people's gay? That's there's liking. That's like me not liking carrots as a snack, but liking grapes. It's a choice.
While I agree with the meaning behind your comment I would say that its not a choice. |
Anarchide
Greedy Bastards
705
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:44:00 -
[95] - Quote
In Greedy Bastards, we accept everyone; no BS, no drama, no harasment.
I often squad with other Corps and I'm glad to say that they are all quality people.
Stay away from the Local Chat! |
Iago Templar
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
29
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Posted - 2013.09.24 13:45:00 -
[96] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:Iago Templar wrote:I would speak with your Uncle then and ask him how he would react if someone in the street shouts F*G! at him or his partner. Someone shouting that in a game is a similar situation, when you are trying to live your life and someone says horrible things about you in a blatantly nasty manner its a jarring horrible experience.
I have had it a few times in the street, I have even been attacked for holding a boyfriends hand in the street so sometimes if I ask reasonably that people try to understand what it can be like for a gay person to live openly I would hope they would. I am glad that the majority in this thread understand and have stood with me either in giving tacit support to the sentiment of the thread or even liking mine and others posts.
I like to think of playing games as a fun pastime, but if I come in for abuse from someone for being myself, I am who I am after all ;-) then meh I'll mute them and mock them in open channel and report them if they send me hateful messages, then move on to the next round.
Maybe you are correct about the term 'political correctness' though its too loaded a term for knuckle dragging numptys who read and listen to too much right wing media. I'll call it something else then...
How about 'not being a prick'?
Good luck in college, may it open your mind a bit more.
my uncle doesn't care about insults, he knows that people cant harm him by words. its called maturity. im may come off as a prick but its not my problem. don't like my attitude, don't care.
Sorry I did not mean for you to think I was calling you a prick, I do not believe you are one I was saying those who use homophobic insults are pricks.
While your uncle may not care about verbal abuse, not tackling the verbal abuse in a game leads to a culture of permissiveness in which people get away with all sorts of horrible trolling and therefore spoiling the experience for all.
By showing someone that abuse in any form be it sexuality, gender or race based is not acceptable and standing up to that person you chip away at an issue that threatens to push a lot of new gamers out of a game or out of the community as a whole. Plus maybe, just maybe you crack the ice of a cold cold heart and show them the world isn't so bad and that hate isn't the answer. *throws flowers and skips away* |
Jerry Jemmott
Carbon 7 CRONOS.
16
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Posted - 2013.09.24 14:38:00 -
[97] - Quote
I always find irony when the losing side is making homophobic comments toward the winner ... history teaches us that fighting abilities have nothing to do with sexual orientation : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sacred_Band_of_Thebes
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low genius
the sound of freedom Renegade Alliance
474
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Posted - 2013.09.24 14:41:00 -
[98] - Quote
yeah, the whole 'internet homophobe' routine is tired. |
Seymor Krelborn
DUST University Ivy League
982
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Posted - 2013.09.24 23:46:00 -
[99] - Quote
I am 100% against any and all slurs and have no time or patience for the people who use them in their everyday speech...
call em out! |
Aythadis Smith
Sebiestor Field Sappers Minmatar Republic
125
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Posted - 2013.09.25 00:00:00 -
[100] - Quote
Am I the only one disappointed that the OP has to make a thread about this? |
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Fire of Prometheus
DUST University Ivy League
440
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Posted - 2013.09.25 00:07:00 -
[101] - Quote
If you mail me those players names, I will go out of my way to wreck these so called players.
Whatever happened to just let things be? If someone has a different sexual orientation, than let them. It's not hurting anyone. Like seriously, put yourself in there shoes. Then how would you feel?
http://youtu.be/hlVBg7_08n0
Watch this^^^ |
Aythadis Smith
Sebiestor Field Sappers Minmatar Republic
125
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Posted - 2013.09.25 00:07:00 -
[102] - Quote
I just had a conversation with someone I know about what the OP talked about. Using gay sexuality in screaming at a red dot. In so many words he said that he was allowed to talk the way he does because he can, and that person needs to harden up.
I might experiment some more on this idea. on my own |
Patrick57
GunFall Mobilization Covert Intervention
333
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Posted - 2013.09.25 00:58:00 -
[103] - Quote
It is ridiculous that things like this happen in a game. We are all here to have fun. I'm not getting into the whole "it's good/bad to be gay, it's a sin, etc. etc." but bringing things like this to a video game? By all means, OP, call that corp out, there needs to be some kind of consequence for terrible actions such as this. |
Maken Tosch
DUST University Ivy League
4271
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Posted - 2013.09.25 01:36:00 -
[104] - Quote
Thankfully my corp, and ultimately our whole alliance, has a zero-tolerance policy in regards to this kind of behavior. This is mainly because we want a fun and professional atmosphere for our students and because we have a reputation to uphold as a friendly and neutral training corp. |
Kigurosaka Laaksonen
DUST University Ivy League
8
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Posted - 2013.09.25 12:36:00 -
[105] - Quote
On one hand, someone can try to be offensive. On the other hand, someone can choose to be offended or not.
I'm not sharing my personal life on these forums, suffice it to say when someone calls me an offensive word, I recognize it as petty name calling and treat it as such. I can be offended, or I can easily ignore it. Take responsibility for your decision to be offended.
If you feel at all that this posts 'justifies being an a--hole' then you've misread the post and put words in my mouth, so to say. |
Kigurosaka Laaksonen
DUST University Ivy League
9
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Posted - 2013.09.25 12:47:00 -
[106] - Quote
Fire of Prometheus wrote:If you mail me those players names, I will go out of my way to wreck these so called players. Whatever happened to just let things be? If someone has a different sexual orientation, than let them. It's not hurting anyone. Like seriously, put yourself in there shoes. Then how would you feel? http://youtu.be/hlVBg7_08n0Watch this^^^
Likewise, name calling is not hurting anyone, except in the most juvenile of ways. If someone is an ignorant, hateful, spiteful person that calls others names then, as you say, just let things be. It's not your responsibility to change that person. Honestly, if the absolute worst thing that person does is call you names, they're doing alright.
Again, by way of disclaimer, no where in here am I justifying rude, inconsiderate, malicious, or intentionally hurtful speech or behavior. If that's what you took away from this post, that's squarely on your shoulders. |
Rei Shepard
Spectre II
624
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Posted - 2013.09.25 13:03:00 -
[107] - Quote
Quote:All was fine till, after a while, he's noticed a large some of the community ( with in game) and with in the corp of some words going around. He doesnt like people screaming F.A.G. in an unfavorable term. As in, you get killed and hear "F'ing F.A.G.". Let me repeat, with in game, he hears people scream this and is getting offended by this. Even from this corp I spoke of earlier.
I am not quite sure why your friend is taking this personel?, its clearly used as a generic term as a "AW CRAP" word and not directed at a gay person? |
Spycrab Jr
Condotta Rouvenor Gallente Federation
12
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Posted - 2013.09.25 13:58:00 -
[108] - Quote
Just take the insult like a man and mute them. Nothing to get worked up over. |
Maken Tosch
DUST University Ivy League
4277
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:00:00 -
[109] - Quote
Rei Shepard wrote:Quote:All was fine till, after a while, he's noticed a large some of the community ( with in game) and with in the corp of some words going around. He doesnt like people screaming F.A.G. in an unfavorable term. As in, you get killed and hear "F'ing F.A.G.". Let me repeat, with in game, he hears people scream this and is getting offended by this. Even from this corp I spoke of earlier. I am not quite sure why your friend is taking this personel?, its clearly used as a generic term as a "AW CRAP" word and not directed at a gay person?
Well, you have to consider the fact that no two cultures are alike. Remember, this world is full of different cultures and therefore it is impossible to ever say something like F*G in terms of video gaming and not run into someone who might think you were referring to sexual preference. Kind of like a British person coming to the US and asking someone "would you like to smoke a f*g" and then seeing an American give him a weird look.
Note: In Britain, smoking a f*g means smoking a cigarette. Or at least as far as I know.
And this is just one example of why many corporations in New Eden often have policies regarding certain words. What may seem innocent to you could be offensive to others. The larger the corp, the more strict the policy gets because the more diverse the membership becomes and thus the more likely it is for someone to offend another if such a policy didn't exist already. |
Gh0st C0de
Spirit Collective
49
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:29:00 -
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Flamesea wrote:Good clans/corps have..
Rules & Regulations that include Sexual Harassment Policy
"Failure of any member to follow the rules and regulations, regardless of rank, title or tenure, can result in various levels of corrective action by Community leadership. This action can include verbal or written counseling, warning level increase, loss of rank or title, suspension and dishonorable discharge..."
My corp, small though it is, has a clause like this. We go on to include a moratorium on all religiously, ethnically or racially inflammatory rhetoric. We're mostly social scientists and med-students... we really like diversity and civility. Then again, our corp is also adults 20+ only.
As for "girlfriend corp" remarks... my girlfriend is a better FPS player than 'll ever be, she introduced me to the genre. As it seems, misogyny is rampant in teenage boys playing video games, there are studies. It's sad really. |
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DUST Fiend
OSG Planetary Operations Covert Intervention
6481
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:31:00 -
[111] - Quote
The word is irrelevant, only the intent.
It sounds like your friend is upsetting himself over something that won't be changed (human nature) |
Arkena Wyrnspire
Turalyon 514 Turalyon Alliance
3458
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:35:00 -
[112] - Quote
You know, I expected somewhat advanced QQ from this thread when I clicked it. Instead, I found this. Thank you, OP. +1. Good luck on your journey to find a suitable corp! |
Crash Monster
Snipers Anonymous
1433
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:39:00 -
[113] - Quote
The answer to "why should I change the way I talk" is along the lines of "because you are an ignorant racist homophobic redneck *sshole" and the way you speak tells everyone that. |
Canari Elphus
Pro Hic Immortalis
463
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Posted - 2013.09.25 18:49:00 -
[114] - Quote
This is basically boiled down to two parts
Public - In this sense, it will never change. There are no ethics tests that someone needs to pass to be able to play this game. There were always be kids and people with scabbed knuckles that will use any avenue available to them to voice their idiocy. The internet only gives them a facade to hide behind while they do so.
Private (Corp) - This is really up to you and your friend to find a corp that enforces its values. I know many of the top corps take pride in themselves and their leaders enforce such standards. Its just a matter of finding a happy home where you get the respect you deserve.
Personally, I cant claim to be perfect in this regard. It has popped out of my mouth now and again and I have gotten smacked up side the head by my girlfriend when she hears it. I dont mean any hate by it but its hard to catch yourself now and again.
I also agree with Void though. Standing up for yourself and pushing back is the best way to make a bad habit stop. If someone feels foolish for the act, chances are they will try to stop doing it. Strength has nothing to do with sexual orientation. |
Silas Swakhammer
GamersForChrist Orion Empire
211
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Posted - 2013.09.25 19:15:00 -
[115] - Quote
Gorra Snell wrote:I have nothing to say on this subject that hasn't been said already, but its important, and I'm glad it's being discussed.
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Bethhy
Ancient Exiles
125
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Posted - 2013.09.25 19:49:00 -
[116] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Alright. THIS wasn't directed TO me, but I was witness to this, and I would call these "KIDS" out, but in all, it would just harm the victim more. But this is something I want to bring to you, the adult side of this community.
I got a friend into this game who is gay. Now, I'm not saying cartwheels, rainbows coming from his arse, but he does enjoy the company of men.
WELL, hes stayed with the game, and enjoyed it properly. Got him self, now, i think close to 12m SP. So, yes, invested some time into this, got him into " my corp" ( I use this term loosely now) and have had some great time.
All was fine till, after a while, he's noticed a large some of the community ( with in game) and with in the corp of some words going around. He doesnt like people screaming F.A.G. in an unfavorable term. As in, you get killed and hear "F'ing F.A.G.". Let me repeat, with in game, he hears people scream this and is getting offended by this. Even from this corp I spoke of earlier.
A town hall meeting has come up and I brought this up. The response "He should learn to HTFU and learn to get over it", to as far as "This is how I talk. If he doesn't like this, he should leave" My response to this was immediately, "You are justifying being an a-hole. You don't want to change how you talk around this guy, but would much rather continue the way you talk, not in regard to how you might actually offend this guy"
Well, you can see how long he stayed with in the corp. I even left friends and family to even follow him on his journey in being blue. And guess what, this wasn't just there, even in other corps, but it did do something.
The previous corp, the group caught wind of why he left, and it had others spool up and raise their hands saying "this also offends me"
One of them was black. I then received a message outside of game saying "F'ng 'n' ( yes, the n-bomb) should learn to grow up, and HTFU because life is unfair, people ingeneral, in the real world are going to talk to him like that and he should just learn to adjust"
This continued back and forth down to it ending in being called a "n-bomb lover" ( please replace n-bomb for a more or less, 6 letter word starting with n, a few g's, and a 'R')
Well, the corp soon got them selves a holding cell for new players, to teach and mold new players. Cohoerted my friend to rejoin, under new management, and rather a good guy did talk him back in, including the black guy from before.
Long story short, someone in that first corp told me they are now planing on closing this previous corp because they let both of these two in, because of how they left this first corp ( which I seen them leave under the terms of "I'm tired of hearing my sexuality being constantly used in a negative text, and treatment of race ( including N-bombing) is not acceptable as an adult."
So, I come to you guys, he doesnt know the corp he is in, is going to nuke, and take out some rather good names from the corp as...as far as I can tell, because of being a child.
So I ask you, was anyone being in the wrong here? Should I make this corp public ( I won't but I gotta ask)
I'm just left baffled, that someone can confront another, asking them to quit and they can just "I don't want to change, it is YOU that has to change"
I felt I needed to share and start making this public.
TL;DR crowd
Calling that red dot that gunned you down a "gay" can offend people in your squad. And has, and has escalated to an almost ridiculous point that, I want this a little out there.
I think Macklemore wrote a song about it... This is a societal issue,
The people pioneering for that part of equality in society against government's and power block's don't get offended in general by people having that word in their vocabulary and using it as such. They went through much worse in their life struggle, that a little word doesn't impose that much power on their emotion's...
Stop giving power to a word... its just that... a word. |
Crash Monster
Snipers Anonymous
1435
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Posted - 2013.09.25 20:06:00 -
[117] - Quote
It's hard to treat a word as "just a word" when it has a boatload of history weighing it down... |
INFINITE DIVERSITY IDIC
TIRANNY OF EVIL MEN
55
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Posted - 2013.09.25 20:35:00 -
[118] - Quote
Rynoceros wrote:Call 'em out.
They have no problem voicing their opinion to one of us, why not everyone? They should be just as proud of who they are in their bigotry. Let me be the first to say that I use the word gay in game when I die in a way I view as soft,, weak, or with feminine traits, I will not apologize for this as it has no direct derogatory insinuation toward someone who is gay, nor do gays own the rights to the word gay. As a matter of fact most of this post is gay...... There is some validity where personal attacks are concerned but this is within a corp surely they can simply seperate from one another, I mean does this need to be a public debate? I mean name calling? That's where we are? |
Kaltos Darksbane
KNIGHTZ OF THE ROUND Public Disorder.
31
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:19:00 -
[119] - Quote
Michael Arck wrote:Kaltos Darksbane wrote:This corp should be outed just so others like your friend will know about this beforehand so they can either steer clear or at least be informed if they do join that corp. Ha, but doesn't the OP describe 92 percent of the corporations in New Eden?
I certainly hope not. I believe most corps when he mentions his aversion to this talk and takes it as a personal insult they would kindly apologize and at least attempt to reduce or stop this language in his presence. (Even if they didn't mean it.)
But it seems when he did bring it to this corps attention they specifically attacked his sexual orientation and gave him the age old HTFU. I'm not gay, but even I wouldn't want to be a part of a corp that treats its members that way. |
Buster Friently
Rosen Association
1724
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:24:00 -
[120] - Quote
Honestly, this is why I only corp up with my RL friends.
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Awry Barux
Shining Flame Amarr Empire
139
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:29:00 -
[121] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
You can't split the meaning of a word like that, because that's not the way that language works. Arguing that "I don't mean it that way" is absolutely meaningless- no one else can hear your thoughts, and putting up a disclaimer like that doesn't win you a free pass. Invoking a word will always call to mind every definition, positive and negative, of that word. |
Zero Harpuia
Turalyon 514 Turalyon Alliance
1026
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:40:00 -
[122] - Quote
I'll do you one better with MovieBob Chipman. Not QUITE the EXACT same topic, but it's the same basic ideal.
Also, I can vouch that the ShadowCompany are pretty decent folk about this sort of thing. I'll have to kill your clones horridly if you join up with them though :3 |
Lea Silencio
D3ath D3alers
218
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:40:00 -
[123] - Quote
Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it.
good luck.
This proves the point. Constant use of the word (and others) has desensitized us to the word's true meaning. It's just like driving to and from work. You do it so often that your brain goes into "auto-pilot" and before you know it, you have reached your destination without much detail of how.
The "n" word is just ignorant when used, as it was born from a decrepid era yet is used as a socially accepted greeting. Baffles me really and I am part Black. The "f" word, when used to display anger or frustration towards someone is equally appauling. How would you like it if you were no longer called by your name and it was replaced instead based on a flaw of yours. "You aren't Greg anymore. I think we'll call you 'Captain McStubby' because you are missing one of your apendeges."
To people it offends, stand the hell up and say something because if you don't, 1. you are in no position to complain and 2. you are just as guilty by letting it continue should it offend someone else. Seriously.
Remember...you can't cure "stupid". And ignorance? Well, that is just a deadlier strain of stupid. |
Zero Harpuia
Turalyon 514 Turalyon Alliance
1026
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:43:00 -
[124] - Quote
Awry Barux wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
You can't split the meaning of a word like that, because that's not the way that language works. Arguing that "I don't mean it that way" is absolutely meaningless- no one else can hear your thoughts, and putting up a disclaimer like that doesn't win you a free pass. Invoking a word will always call to mind every definition, positive and negative, of that word.
Exactly this. Words have meanings, as trite as that sounds. Otherwise, this would just be a scrawl of lines as opposed to a post. Words have a reason for being, and we invoke that reason when we use them. I can make up a word right now, but it won't matter because not one of you besides myself will know what it means. I can also use an old word but mean something different, but it won't matter because that word already has a definition. |
Lea Silencio
D3ath D3alers
218
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Posted - 2013.09.26 05:50:00 -
[125] - Quote
INFINITE DIVERSITY IDIC wrote:Rynoceros wrote:Call 'em out.
They have no problem voicing their opinion to one of us, why not everyone? They should be just as proud of who they are in their bigotry. Let me be the first to say that I use the word gay in game when I die in a way I view as soft,, weak, or with feminine traits, I will not apologize for this as it has no direct derogatory insinuation toward someone who is gay, nor do gays own the rights to the word gay. As a matter of fact most of this post is gay...... There is some validity where personal attacks are concerned but this is within a corp surely they can simply seperate from one another, I mean does this need to be a public debate? I mean name calling? That's where we are?
When it offends someone, yes. What you intend when you say it is on YOU, but that doesn't mean it doesn't bother someone else. It takes, what, one second to say "apologies" and a tiny bit of self control to ensure it doesn't happen again? You CAN'T be THAT lazy, THAT unapologetic or THAT much of jerk, could you? Hell, it may teach you a little lesson in self-control. It has for me. I don't want to have fun talking and playing the way I do at someone else's expense. Why possibly ruin it for them when I have the power NOT to? |
TheAmazing FlyingPig
Crux Special Tasks Group Gallente Federation
3815
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Posted - 2013.09.26 06:09:00 -
[126] - Quote
I'd also like to bring up the topic of verbally bashing those with disabilities, especially autism (which, for whatever reason, gets a terrible rap on Eve, and to a lesser extent here).
My past job had me working as a school bus aide for disabled children. These are some of the nicest kids I've ever had the pleasure of getting to know, and it makes me furious when I see people saying things that generalize all disabled people as incapable of thought or emotion.
It's that moment where you want to reach your fist through the headset and bash their face inward. |
Matticus Monk
Ordus Trismegistus
492
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Posted - 2013.09.26 10:00:00 -
[127] - Quote
I'm not a fan of using offensive language unless I mean to offend someone. Words in popular culture have well-recognized meanings (and connotations) which many people rightly consider offensive.
People need to step up their game when it comes to communication. Words can have a lot of power depending on the listener. Insensitive speakers really don't get, or care, about this.
If people are being rude then they need to be called out or muted. The only thing we can really do is choose not to tolerate rude and inconsiderate behavior. |
Matticus Monk
Ordus Trismegistus
492
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Posted - 2013.09.26 10:06:00 -
[128] - Quote
TheAmazing FlyingPig wrote:I'd also like to bring up the topic of verbally bashing those with disabilities, especially autism (which, for whatever reason, gets a terrible rap on Eve, and to a lesser extent here).
My past job had me working as a school bus aide for disabled children. These are some of the nicest kids I've ever had the pleasure of getting to know, and it makes me furious when I see people saying things that generalize all disabled people as incapable of thought or emotion.
It's that moment where you want to reach your fist through the headset and bash their face inward.
To me the epitome of being a disgusting human being is to mock those who have a harder time of things than you and are less fortunate. It's not funny, and it's not cool. This **** sends me to the dark-side pretty fast....
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Chunky Munkey
Amarr Templars Amarr Empire
1587
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Posted - 2013.09.26 16:38:00 -
[129] - Quote
Anyone can be offended by anything, so I always start on the side of free speech by default in these scenarios. I'll draw the line at harrassment though. |
Hey Fatty
SVER True Blood Public Disorder.
60
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Posted - 2013.09.26 20:41:00 -
[130] - Quote
I don't wanna sounds like a q*eer or nothin', but...
Sorry, this is all that flashes through my mind when I read this thread.
Much love for everyone, regardless of sexual preferences or gender! (Unless you're a tool) |
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DUST Fiend
OSG Planetary Operations Covert Intervention
6493
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Posted - 2013.09.26 20:48:00 -
[131] - Quote
Crash Monster wrote:It's hard to treat a word as "just a word" when it has a boatload of history weighing it down... I love the N word, just saying it makes me smile, and sometimes I sing little songs using nothing but that word.
That said, the reason I don't say it in public is simply because people have an unreasonable reaction. Case in point, a kid I knew from school called this guy a 'N' and ended up with 7 bullets in his chest.
Maybe gays just need to get MORE offended, fear is the great equalizer
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Dunk Mujunk
RestlessSpirits D.E.F.I.A.N.C.E
146
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Posted - 2013.09.26 21:09:00 -
[132] - Quote
I can totally agree with the OP, and I feel for the parties who have been negatively effected by the situation. I also, in a small way, can understand the other side of the coin (not from your story specifically, but in general). I use the term "gay" a lot, but I use it as a replacement for "bullsh!t". If I get killed by some laggy f*cking bastard, i'll say something to the effect of "What??!! That's f*cking gay!!", as in that's bullsh!t. Also, growing up, "Gay" was considered politically correct (I do live in the south) so I never really considered the full impact of the word. Of course if said in a malicious way it can be offensive. The more.......abrasive words such as *** and the like, I do not often use, but I would be lying if I said I never used it (never called anyone a *** because they were gay though, just as a general insult, which is I know is not acceptable). If I was running in a squad with my Corp and one of the dudes said "hey look, I would appreciate it if you would stop saying the word gay because it offends me", I would say "yea, no problem. I wasn't trying to offend you, it's just something I say. It may slip out again here and there, but I will work on keeping sh!t like that to myself".
All that said, not liking someone, being mean to someone, excluding someone, or any sort of negativity towards someone based on race, gender, religion, or sexuality is not acceptable. I don't care if you are a half Black half Swedish Jahovas Witness man/woman that likes other men/women. The only thing I care about is can I put up with having this person in my squad and on my headset. If the person is always hollering or screaming or constantly jabbering or interrupting or being rude or whatever, I don't give a f*ck how straight they are, I don't want to have to listen to that sh!t. If you pursue an alternate life style but are a normal down to earth person that I can shoot the sh!t with, you are alright in my book. On the game and in the real world.
Ponies Test, I would say just wash y'alls hands of the hole mess and move on to a new Corp. I read the thread and seen you guys may have found a Corp to your liking, I hope it works out for you guys. There are plenty of decent people here on Dust, it's just the morons that always scream the loudest, in game and in RL (this coming from someone who has been the moron more than his fair share over the course of his life). You could throw out names, but I understand you don't want the spotlight to be focused on the victim, and it would be best to say f*ck it and find a new home (which I know won't be a problem, there are plenty of good Corps out there). Although, I must say if some names surfaced for the community at large to target I wouldn't mind helping to force a bigot to make a new character.
Moselder Telend wrote:I find it sad that you are so weak then, where I grew uo if you needed someone to stand by you were kicked down. Too many people in this day in age have become weak little babies. Grow up, if you cant deal with a word then dont use the internet and dont leave the plastic bubble you must live in.
This goes for anyone and everyone.
This is the attitude of a coward who is to weak to stand up for someone other than themselves. |
EXCUTIONR BRUTAL
DUST University Ivy League
6
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Posted - 2013.09.27 01:17:00 -
[133] - Quote
FOR FUKS SAK are u all so thin skinned? I'm offended when all the ( insert minority, or sexual pref. here) **** and moan that you feel offended. Its a game its life, if you cant handle it here your doomed in real life. I'm straight, male ,and Caucasian so make fun of me so I can QQ just like you |
KING CHECKMATE
TEAM SATISFACTION
1337
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Posted - 2013.09.27 01:21:00 -
[134] - Quote
ponies test wrote:Alright. THIS wasn't directed TO me, but I was witness to this, and I would call these "KIDS" out, but in all, it would just harm the victim more. But this is something I want to bring to you, the adult side of this community.
I got a friend into this game who is gay. Now, I'm not saying cartwheels, rainbows coming from his arse, but he does enjoy the company of men.
WELL, hes stayed with the game, and enjoyed it properly. Got him self, now, i think close to 12m SP. So, yes, invested some time into this, got him into " my corp" ( I use this term loosely now) and have had some great time.
All was fine till, after a while, he's noticed a large some of the community ( with in game) and with in the corp of some words going around. He doesnt like people screaming F.A.G. in an unfavorable term. As in, you get killed and hear "F'ing F.A.G.". Let me repeat, with in game, he hears people scream this and is getting offended by this. Even from this corp I spoke of earlier.
A town hall meeting has come up and I brought this up. The response "He should learn to HTFU and learn to get over it", to as far as "This is how I talk. If he doesn't like this, he should leave" My response to this was immediately, "You are justifying being an a-hole. You don't want to change how you talk around this guy, but would much rather continue the way you talk, not in regard to how you might actually offend this guy"
Well, you can see how long he stayed with in the corp. I even left friends and family to even follow him on his journey in being blue. And guess what, this wasn't just there, even in other corps, but it did do something.
The previous corp, the group caught wind of why he left, and it had others spool up and raise their hands saying "this also offends me"
One of them was black. I then received a message outside of game saying "F'ng 'n' ( yes, the n-bomb) should learn to grow up, and HTFU because life is unfair, people ingeneral, in the real world are going to talk to him like that and he should just learn to adjust"
This continued back and forth down to it ending in being called a "n-bomb lover" ( please replace n-bomb for a more or less, 6 letter word starting with n, a few g's, and a 'R')
Well, the corp soon got them selves a holding cell for new players, to teach and mold new players. Cohoerted my friend to rejoin, under new management, and rather a good guy did talk him back in, including the black guy from before.
Long story short, someone in that first corp told me they are now planing on closing this previous corp because they let both of these two in, because of how they left this first corp ( which I seen them leave under the terms of "I'm tired of hearing my sexuality being constantly used in a negative text, and treatment of race ( including N-bombing) is not acceptable as an adult."
So, I come to you guys, he doesnt know the corp he is in, is going to nuke, and take out some rather good names from the corp as...as far as I can tell, because of being a child.
So I ask you, was anyone being in the wrong here? Should I make this corp public ( I won't but I gotta ask)
I'm just left baffled, that someone can confront another, asking them to quit and they can just "I don't want to change, it is YOU that has to change"
I felt I needed to share and start making this public.
TL;DR crowd
Calling that red dot that gunned you down a "gay" can offend people in your squad. And has, and has escalated to an almost ridiculous point that, I want this a little out there.
This isn't CoD. +1
Im not GAY.
Im bi. LOL ..... I guess its no one's buisness who bl0ws me XD I dont get offended by anything, but i do know people who do. .... |
EXCUTIONR BRUTAL
DUST University Ivy League
7
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Posted - 2013.09.27 01:29:00 -
[135] - Quote
Im not gay im worse excellent reply and no crying about offence isn't it nice to be a confident adult and not struggling with who you are.
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KING CHECKMATE
TEAM SATISFACTION
1338
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Posted - 2013.09.27 01:33:00 -
[136] - Quote
EXCUTIONR BRUTAL wrote:........d not struggling with who you are.
Why would i ? im awesome....
;) |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
1552
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Posted - 2013.09.27 04:40:00 -
[137] - Quote
KING CHECKMATE wrote:EXCUTIONR BRUTAL wrote:........d not struggling with who you are.
Why would i ? im awesome....;)
don't care lol... your still an ass hole |
Blake Kingston
Sinq Laison Gendarmes Gallente Federation
101
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Posted - 2013.09.27 05:38:00 -
[138] - Quote
I don't think I buy into the 'you offended someone, so thats the only thing that matters'.
The disregard for other humans with slightly differing backgrounds, yes, I'd agree with that being an issue and really why are they?
But being offended is often quite subjective. I'm not interesting in kowtowing to any little thing someone might be offended by because of their own pet peeves, for example. No, not in regards to intolerance to gay people or people of other races, but maybe they just dislike something, but want to act offended about it. That's where the focus goes when you just look if someone was offended.
That's probably part of the problem - they guy doesn't want to ask how high when someone gets offended and tells him to jump.
What are the principles of treating others that we are to stand by? |
INFINITE DIVERSITY IDIC
TIRANNY OF EVIL MEN
61
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Posted - 2013.09.27 13:19:00 -
[139] - Quote
Lea Silencio wrote:Void Echo wrote:honestly im surprised people still use those words as sexual insults... when I call a red or teammate a f-g, Im thinking hes an ******* that needs to get his ass kicked because hes being a ******* idiot in game and its getting in the way of me helping the team get a victory... im not thinking that hes a homosexual... I could care less about that if you can pull the trigger of your gun to kill the enemy.
I rarely ever think of sexuality when it comes to games, this lifestyle is still new and is going through growing pains, basically going through the stereotypes and sensitive issues.
true gamers don't care what the **** you are; male, female, gay, straight, lesbian, black, white. as long as you can help them to gain victory, youl have the respect you want.
its those little kids that care about what you are.. my advice, either stay away form the kids or kill them in battle and gloat about it.
good luck. This proves the point. Constant use of the word (and others) has desensitized us to the word's true meaning. It's just like driving to and from work. You do it so often that your brain goes into "auto-pilot" and before you know it, you have reached your destination without much detail of how. The "n" word is just ignorant when used, as it was born from a decrepid era yet is used as a socially accepted greeting. Baffles me really and I am part Black. The "f" word, when used to display anger or frustration towards someone is equally appauling. How would you like it if you were no longer called by your name and it was replaced instead based on a flaw of yours. "You aren't Greg anymore. I think we'll call you 'Captain McStubby' because you are missing one of your apendeges." To people it offends, stand the hell up and say something because if you don't, 1. you are in no position to complain and 2. you are just as guilty by letting it continue should it offend someone else. Seriously. Remember...you can't cure "stupid". And ignorance? Well, that is just a deadlier strain of stupid. Its desensitized us to the true meaning of gay? Ummm happy? Or ******? Which is a pile of sticks used for fire wood? Both of these words robbed from us and can't be used because some flamers might get upset? Because they call out your sexuality? I'm straight you can call me any slang term that implies I'm straight and ill never get upset, really this is dumb, the language police trying to put the handcuffs on a term MOST dust players use? Ya right, gtfo... |
Beld Errmon
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Posted - 2013.09.27 14:52:00 -
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This is what watching Fox News does to you. |
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Long Evity
Krullefor Organization Minmatar Republic
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I'll just say this:
I will talk however the fudge I want. If it offends you - tell me. I'll apologize and try to keep you in mind when you're in hearing distance. And that's as far 'adult' as I'll go in a video game. |
Fenix Alexarr
BurgezzE.T.F Public Disorder.
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ITT: Everyone getting butt-hurt about a term used to express frustration. Or is that term also verboten? What about verboten? I mean ****'s used verboten at one time, right?
Main Point: Corps exist for a reason. Find people of similar mind, ability, and motivation to play with. This idea that everyone must be politically correct while we are blowing bodies into a fine red mist would be funny if everyone wasn't so serious about it. Every time I read a story about juvenile behavior in the gaming 'scene', it's not the story that bothers me, but the reaction by other people.
You are using weapons of mass murder specifically designed to put as much biomass and metal into the dirt as possible and you are worried about whether someone is taking the emotions into account of anyone in hearing distance. Think about that for a second.
I'm not saying this behavior is good. I'm not saying that it's bad. I'm saying quite plainly that you are in a game whose sole objective is to kill people for cash, skill, and territory. Most of the world would consider that 'bad' behavior. This is all subjective. If you don't like a particular behavior, you have the power to do something about it. That is what makes Eve Eve. Leave corp, join another, and beat the urine out of these offenders if you feel so offended.
Someone complaining on a forum that someone called them a name while you were murdering each other only shows me that we have some extremely serious problems with perspective going on. |
Surt gods end
Demon Ronin
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Posted - 2013.09.27 18:31:00 -
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Welcome to a FPS game. (MMO? You nerds wish. No.. what you have here is a lobby FPS) Offended? Then mute them. You can't control others views, are how they behave. And games, and ONLINE games are a release for many.
If some one is targeting you out, then by all means that's harassment. File a complaint. But if people are just "unleashing" or spewing crap, then mute them.
You can tell em to stop, but THIS IS A GAME FOR RELEASE FOR THEM AS MUCH AS YOU. Moral conduct? lol Yeah that's subjective. In real life and games. everyone moral code is different. doesn't necessary make em bad or good. life isn't black and white.
And if he really offended by this.. I'm guessing he's not a FPS player huh? You can't throw a rock in that field with out hearing some one say "what bloody fairy threw that?"
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INFINITE DIVERSITY IDIC
TIRANNY OF EVIL MEN
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Posted - 2013.09.28 01:59:00 -
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Beld Errmon wrote:/\ This is what watching Fox News does to you. | | | \/ True, it makes us unafraid of pc libs and there hate speech doctrine that attempts to control how we think. We in my country are free and that independent cavalier mentality will be present anywhere you see my name and as such it carries the right to hurl dreadful insults at the red dot that CAN'T EVEN HEAR IT, as for the ladies it offended second hand, you have a mute button, block button, leave corp button, or my personal recomendation an uninstall dust button........ |
Void Echo
Morsus Mihi Aperuitque Imperium
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Posted - 2013.09.28 02:03:00 -
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why is this thread still here?
the matter is over, resolved. go on with your character's life. |
Our Deepest Regret
Algintal Core Gallente Federation
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Posted - 2013.09.28 02:21:00 -
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INFINITE DIVERSITY IDIC wrote:Beld Errmon wrote:/\ This is what watching Fox News does to you. | | | \/ True, it makes us unafraid of pc libs and there hate speech doctrine that attempts to control how we think. We in my country are free and that independent cavalier mentality will be present anywhere you see my name and as such it carries the right to hurl dreadful insults at the red dot that CAN'T EVEN HEAR IT, as for the ladies it offended second hand, you have a mute button, block button, leave corp button, or my personal recomendation an uninstall dust button........
Pennsatucky, is that you? Man, when Chapman gave you a crotch punt, dropped you with an elbow, and knocked your teeth out into the snow, I was like daaaaaaamn. What are you gonna look like in Season 2? Man, I can't wait to find out.
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Beld Errmon
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Posted - 2013.09.28 10:39:00 -
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Void Echo wrote:why is this thread still here?
the matter is over, resolved. go on with your character's life.
aww let the poor middle class conservatives have their bottle, there's enough victim status to go around. |
KING CHECKMATE
TEAM SATISFACTION
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Posted - 2013.09.28 21:32:00 -
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Void Echo wrote:KING CHECKMATE wrote:EXCUTIONR BRUTAL wrote:........d not struggling with who you are.
Why would i ? im awesome....;) don't care lol... your still an awesome ass hole
*Fixed for you |
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