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SILENT GIANT
FATHERS-AND-SONS
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Posted - 2014.11.18 16:54:00 -
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Sclompton Face-Smasher wrote:SILENT GIANT wrote:Sclompton Face-Smasher wrote:Sergeant Sazu wrote:16, I've been told I behave like a very bitter and cynical old man.
Single; Girlfriend moved away 2 years ago and is planning on being a marine. Sooo, no go.
Unemployed, though with a variety of talents and a near genius IQ, I could probably find something. Regardless, going nowhere due to severe anxiety and depression stuff. Dust is my escape. A younger me!! the only exception are I wanted to go to the Marines but depression history got me rejected and I didn't make full use of my IQ in school so just follow a few words from a stranger : Keep going and there's always someone out in the world who can share and cover if not, heal that pain you go through.I check forums and would gladly talk to a stranger if they aren't blindly hostile to the point of authorties. So you can get at me private if you want to. Side note: I read manga to escape getting down. I was gonna tell the kid the same thing. I made it through life ok i guess. I do often wonder how different things would have went if I was more open and dealt w same problems differently. I kept and still keep everything in. No one knows what truly goes on inside my head and trust me you don't want to. Handicaps many aspects of life. Guess I have my kids to try to make sure they don't make same mistakes I did. I'm one hell of an encyclopedia of what not to do in life. Not a bad person, I have a higher moral standards than most people I meet, but really would like to have done a few things different. I don't smoke or drink but i'm the type of person that can tell you how to make friends and be social but never do so myself so if I have kids or get married (pretty much gave up on like/loving anyone) I wouldn't want them to take my route.
I feel ya man. I kinda steer away from being social (although these Dust forums seem to bring it out of me). Mostly because my morals get in the way from allowing anyone too close. As soon as I hear someone start bragging about getting drunk and cheating on their other, or catch them in lies, or just plain show their level of being a degenerate in this world I feel those are the enemy and I protect my beliefs. I don't need someone to hang out with bad enough to put up with people not raised right. Those guys could be the same people who talk my daughters in to doing things I'd kill over. I was a passive person too long. I made a complete 180 and stand up to whoever/whenever. The world is a horrible place if you look beyond your bubble. Its only gonna get worse unless you do something about it.
Living this way shut me out to a lot of the world, and I understand you wouldn't want your kids to live in a similar way, but I'd also want them to not turn into a lot of other people who feel there is no consequence for their actions. Don't get me wrong just because I have certain beliefs doesn't mean I haven't put myself into many places I shouldn't have been. I've seen most of what hell has to offer. I know who the enemy is and how bad the world can really get. I gained intel into the enemy and know what to look out for and keep my kids from. Better than being nieve i guess, but paints the most depressive picture of how the world actually is. There is no pill or therapy for that. With eyes wide open thats just how life is. Sad but true. |
SILENT GIANT
FATHERS-AND-SONS
166
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Posted - 2014.11.18 17:10:00 -
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Bright Steel wrote:ghy6tr4 wrote:I'm 30 years old, divorced with two kids but my current girlfriend looks like a super model....and she's 19 and eager to marry me Life is good. You rich or have a very large..... Life a insurance policy???
I was gonna say, or just 19 and doesn't know any better/worse. Hope everything works out for the guy, but who i was at 19 and who I was at 29 were two totally different people. She might grow up and realize who she really is and want something different out of life. |
Bright Steel
Horizons' Edge Proficiency V.
320
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Posted - 2014.11.18 17:26:00 -
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SILENT GIANT wrote:Bright Steel wrote:ghy6tr4 wrote:I'm 30 years old, divorced with two kids but my current girlfriend looks like a super model....and she's 19 and eager to marry me Life is good. You rich or have a very large..... Life a insurance policy??? I was gonna say, or just 19 and doesn't know any better/worse. Hope everything works out for the guy, but who i was at 19 and who I was at 29 were two totally different people. She might grow up and realize who she really is and want something different out of life. You never know these days with morals and family units deteriorating most people don't have a solid foundation to build their life on....
I got lucky and found, or to be more correct, was found by my wife. We started dating at 15 and got married at 19 and have been married for over 7 years now. She's the best thing that ever happened to me, I don't deserve her be no means. But we are the exception and not the norm....
I married my best friend and have never regretted it.
The Best Worst game you can't stop playing..... DUST
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JIMvc2
The Wanga Empire Strikes Back
427
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Posted - 2014.11.18 17:54:00 -
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Soldner VonKuechle wrote:JIMvc2 wrote:Forlorn Destrier wrote:JIMvc2 wrote:I could use some advice.
Yesterday I was talking to this girl who is my friend and we have a lot in common. Most is in running and shes a nice person and all.
My question is where should I take her ?
All I could think of is going on a walk on the beach, go to the park, or go out on a run and after that Eat alot of food!!!
Ive never asked a girl before so this will be my first time. :)
Take her to play pool. It's somewhat casual, and it's an activity (movies are BAAAAAAD first dates). Beach and park are nice, but an activity like playing pool is better. You want to do something together you can TALK about. If you go for a walk, it is purely about whatever you think to say. An activity gives you common ground to start the conversation - makes it a lot easier to talk and therefore a lot more fun and therefore a better chance at a second date. Let us know how it goes! EDIT: going for a run is not a good idea; it will be hard to talk and the point of a first date is to earn a second. If she doesn't get to know you, and you don't get to know her, no second date will happen. Play pool ? Im sorry but I dont know what play pool is. The run workout is something I have in plan but not like Oh run fast. No it wil be a slow run and talk pace. :) Pool, aka Billiards. From personal experience this as a first and/or second date is incredibly rewarding. Between the conversation topics, verbal and non-verbal cues, you can learn alot about the person you're showing an attachment/investment to. Plus you can be cheesy as hell, or a total shark or even a castlenova if you play billiards enough
I've never dated. XD not that Im planning to. Ive always been single lol
MAG Raven vet 7 times. Favorite weapon F90 and Highest Kills 78 and 23 deaths.
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al nize mk2
No Skillz inc.
196
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Posted - 2014.11.18 17:56:00 -
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Bright Steel wrote:You never know these days with morals and family units deteriorating most people don't have a solid foundation to build their life on.... I got lucky and found, or to be more correct, was found by my wife. We started dating at 15 and got married at 19 and have been married for over 7 years now. She's the best thing that ever happened to me, I don't deserve her be no means. But we are the exception and not the norm.... I married my best friend and have never regretted it.
Loved your post, it's great to see someone winning at life!
For the sake of balance, here's me...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUFKs9TA4BQ
GÇ£All that I know most surely about morality and obligations I owe to football.GÇ¥
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Fox Gaden
Immortal Guides
4886
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Posted - 2014.11.18 18:26:00 -
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40
Hand/Eye coordination cannot be taught. For everything else there is the Learning Coalition.
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Forlorn Destrier
Havok Dynasty
3011
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Posted - 2014.11.18 18:43:00 -
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JIMvc2 wrote:Forlorn Destrier wrote:JIMvc2 wrote:I could use some advice.
Yesterday I was talking to this girl who is my friend and we have a lot in common. Most is in running and shes a nice person and all.
My question is where should I take her ?
All I could think of is going on a walk on the beach, go to the park, or go out on a run and after that Eat alot of food!!!
Ive never asked a girl before so this will be my first time. :)
Take her to play pool. It's somewhat casual, and it's an activity (movies are BAAAAAAD first dates). Beach and park are nice, but an activity like playing pool is better. You want to do something together you can TALK about. If you go for a walk, it is purely about whatever you think to say. An activity gives you common ground to start the conversation - makes it a lot easier to talk and therefore a lot more fun and therefore a better chance at a second date. Let us know how it goes! EDIT: going for a run is not a good idea; it will be hard to talk and the point of a first date is to earn a second. If she doesn't get to know you, and you don't get to know her, no second date will happen. Play pool ? Im sorry but I dont know what play pool is. The run workout is something I have in plan but not like Oh run fast. No it wil be a slow run and talk pace. :)
Something like this, or some other table top game where you can talk without being out of breath.
I am the Forgotten Warhorse, the Lord of Lightning
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Bright Steel
Horizons' Edge Proficiency V.
321
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Posted - 2014.11.18 18:59:00 -
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al nize mk2 wrote:Bright Steel wrote:You never know these days with morals and family units deteriorating most people don't have a solid foundation to build their life on.... I got lucky and found, or to be more correct, was found by my wife. We started dating at 15 and got married at 19 and have been married for over 7 years now. She's the best thing that ever happened to me, I don't deserve her be no means. But we are the exception and not the norm.... I married my best friend and have never regretted it. Loved your post, it's great to see someone winning at life! For the sake of balance, here's me... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oUFKs9TA4BQ Well we have had our share of oronlems but haven't had it as bad as some
The Best Worst game you can't stop playing..... DUST
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gauntlet44 LbowDeep
Heaven84 Devils General Tso's Alliance
169
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Posted - 2014.11.18 19:53:00 -
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45 next month full time job second shift
also play as strangeland stranger,
larlac theest,
gauntlett5487,
and balacs sixkin
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JIMvc2
The Wanga Empire Strikes Back
428
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Posted - 2014.11.19 00:29:00 -
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Forlorn Destrier wrote:JIMvc2 wrote:Forlorn Destrier wrote:JIMvc2 wrote:I could use some advice.
Yesterday I was talking to this girl who is my friend and we have a lot in common. Most is in running and shes a nice person and all.
My question is where should I take her ?
All I could think of is going on a walk on the beach, go to the park, or go out on a run and after that Eat alot of food!!!
Ive never asked a girl before so this will be my first time. :)
Take her to play pool. It's somewhat casual, and it's an activity (movies are BAAAAAAD first dates). Beach and park are nice, but an activity like playing pool is better. You want to do something together you can TALK about. If you go for a walk, it is purely about whatever you think to say. An activity gives you common ground to start the conversation - makes it a lot easier to talk and therefore a lot more fun and therefore a better chance at a second date. Let us know how it goes! EDIT: going for a run is not a good idea; it will be hard to talk and the point of a first date is to earn a second. If she doesn't get to know you, and you don't get to know her, no second date will happen. Play pool ? Im sorry but I dont know what play pool is. The run workout is something I have in plan but not like Oh run fast. No it wil be a slow run and talk pace. :) Something like this, or some other table top game where you can talk without being out of breath.
I don't know but where I live I don't know if places have that.
MAG Raven vet 7 times. Favorite weapon F90 and Highest Kills 78 and 23 deaths.
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ghy6tr4
Ganking Police Division
13
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Posted - 2014.11.20 16:01:00 -
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Bright Steel wrote:ghy6tr4 wrote:I'm 30 years old, divorced with two kids but my current girlfriend looks like a super model....and she's 19 and eager to marry me Life is good. You rich or have a very large..... Life a insurance policy???
Neither lol just lucky as hell |
sir RAVEN WING
Horizons' Edge Proficiency V.
1613
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Posted - 2014.12.10 01:06:00 -
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I'm so sad this thread died...
...Until...
I necro'd it. :D
I'd update mine to 28 and Married, but I am not looking past all of these.
IGS is so quiet now, the silence is almost unbearable.
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sir RAVEN WING
Horizons' Edge Proficiency V.
1631
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Posted - 2014.12.10 01:08:00 -
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Fox Gaden wrote:40 Been married 10 years. My wife is a gamer, although I did not know that when I married her. Happy surprises. I am jealous...
My wife slowly went out of gaming...
Let me guess, she's a Fox too?
Raven for CPM2
I use a Flaylol.
The silence, it's unbearable.
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Starlight Burner
ROGUE RELICS VP Gaming Alliance
49
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Posted - 2014.12.10 18:10:00 -
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Studying Information Technology, Computer Systems Support Concentration
Workin' at Amazon
**** growing up.
Thank god for CCP Rattati!!
Rogue Relics is my home away from home.
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TechMechMeds
KILL-EM-QUICK RISE of LEGION
6359
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Posted - 2014.12.10 18:12:00 -
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27, self employed with a gf with no intention of getting married yet.
I steal dollars and turn it into gbp and drive up inflation. I don't literally steal them though, just doing my bit.
I am GJRs Renfield.
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