:
Unfortunately you're clearly misunderstanding a lot of the lore.

The Intaki and Mannar don't live on Gallente Prime, they have their own homeworlds.

Two separate planets joined in a Federation, like the northern and southern states. They may as well have been two separate planets what with slavery and what not. The south left the union and the north forced the south back into the union. The gallente are doing the same, but they don't even have the moral justification of slavery.

Homophobic means anti-gay friend: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobia

Genocide is not something the Caldari partake in. Your Gallente homeworld bombarded and invaded our homeworld committing genocide of millions of our own people to maintain control. Your people murdered ours on our own homeworld.

Jump drive technology was rediscovered jointly by both efforts between the Gallente and the Caldari about 500 years before the start of the Caldari-Gallente war:

Shortly after jump gate technology was jointly discovered by the Gallente and the Caldari a little over five hundred years before the Federation formed, the Caldari corporations had started their own interstellar surveying and colonization, separate from that conducted by the Gallente. It was these colonies, kept as a secret from the Gallenteans, that became the source of friction between the Gallenteans and the Caldari, culminating in the latterGÇÖs defection from the Federation and an ensuing war between the two races.

After ive read the lore between the Minmatar vs Amarr and Caldari vs Gal i cant understand why in EVE and espc in faction warfare why the minmatar and caldari are not allys tbh

Currently in FW the amarr and caldari and allys and the minmatar and gal are also allys but the gal seemed to want to enslave the caldari so to speak into the federation and the caldari didnt want that likewise the minmatar fought against the amarr for freedom

Maybe if you hadn't occupied our homeworld we wouldn't need to have taken such drastic measures. Give us back our homeworld, and perhaps one day peace may be realized again.

Your agenda for the Minmatar, sir, is to undermine the Amarr empire and place yourself on top of New Eden's list of super powers. The only agenda here is for the Gallente to fight a proxy war and weaken the only rival who can stop them from forcing our Caldari State back into a Federation they, the Caldari, do not wish to be a part of. Who then next? Will the Federation decide that the Minmatar need to be members of their Federation as well? Will they fight a war of aggression to force their way of life on the Minmatar?

The Gallente are using subterfuge, and proxy wars, to open a path for them to finally take our homes once and for all and place them under Federation jurisdiction. You fear the Amarr, and that is why we must use them to keep your power in check.

If you didnt force the blockade on us then our citizens would not have felt like prisioners on ther own planet thus they wouldnt have lashed out at the Gallente which we allowed to live on our planet

You caused this yourself, you abandonded your citizens, you backed our people into a corner over something trivial

I personally find myself disgusted by the actions of both the Gallente and the Caldari. Of course, it's hard to stay angry at a nation which won my people their freedom, but that doesn't mean I trust the Gallente.