You also forgot to mention how badly they failed

No....you misunderstand.

I'm not interested in what is done....merely that it is done by those who would champion the fair treatment of humans. Why do the Gallente not simply lock up the Caldari women, why do they **** them as well as the torture?

And the funny part is, the Gallente and Amarr want pretty much the same result. They are both expansionists looking to conquer all the stars under the ideology of uniting all human beings. The difference is the Amarr do so through religion which teaches to care for and respect others, while the Gallente do so through democracy which teaches individual freedom and to care for just yourself.

You should probably look a bit into the Gallente's lore as well, your supposed ally. When you look at how you two met, it becomes evident that the Gallente only sparked and fueled your rebellion against the Amarr because they felt threatened by the Amarr and wanted to take advantage of the Amarr's recent defeat to the Jove. Really, the Minmatar are just puppets of war to the Gallente to gain an edge on the only other empire large enough to threaten them. It becomes even more evident that the Gallente are simply using the Minmatar when you realize that most the Gallente citizens never truly welcomes the Matari into the Federation, and there remains several tensions between the two sides, including most recently a series of incidents which began with a Federation citizen murdering 59 Matari including a Matari tribal leader.