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Ric Barlom
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Posted - 2013.05.09 01:10:00 -
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Well you know what, guys, and I don't know about you but to me this Mithri dude reminds me of Forrest Gump and I'm gonna tell you guys exactly why he reminds me of Forrest Gump. I mean the guy obviously means well, man, but at the same time he's lacking just enough in the social department for a guy like me to notice that and let me give you guys an example so you know what I'm talking about. And Mithri if you're reading this, dude, don't take this in the wrong way, bro. That being said, what I'm talking about here is the part of his message where he states that the people who give him **** because he is part of the corp he is part of are not being rational.
That to me sounds like equivalent of the biggest geek walking up to group of jocks and saying "I choose you to be my best friend". Nothing against geeks or jocks here, guys, just an example. Now let's go back to that statement. Is the community being rational for giving him **** because of the corp he's in? I don't know, probably not. Is that statement likely to change anybody's mind? Probably not. But I've got a better question for you guys: Are people rational? Well, I think hell no! You see people are far from rational and expecting people to be rational is asking for trouble if you ask me. You see when it comes to things like social dynamics and group behaviour especially, you have to be a little smarter than that. I mean I understand you guys got this whole, freedom of speech thing going on in your alliance, no big deal there, I get it. But at the same time, man, you've got to be ready to be treated like the most moronic person who's part of the group you associate yourself with. Asking for people to be friendly to you, just because you are a great guy? I mean c'mon, man, let's be a little bit more realistic here: It's not gonna happen. |
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Ric Barlom
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Posted - 2013.05.09 01:22:00 -
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Mithridates VI wrote:Ric Barlom wrote:Well you know what, guys, and I don't know about you but to me this Mithri dude reminds me of Forrest Gump and I'm gonna tell you guys exactly why he reminds me of Forrest Gump. I mean the guy obviously means well, man, but at the same time he's lacking just enough in the social department for a guy like me to notice that and let me give you guys an example so you know what I'm talking about. And Mithri if you're reading this, dude, don't take this in the wrong way, bro. That being said, what I'm talking about here is the part of his message where he states that the people who give him **** because he is part of the corp he is part of are not being rational.
That to me sounds like equivalent of the biggest geek walking up to group of jocks and saying "I choose you to be my best friend". Nothing against geeks or jocks here, guys, just an example. Now let's go back to that statement. Is the community being rational for giving him **** because of the corp he's in? I don't know, probably not. Is that statement likely to change anybody's mind? Probably not. But I've got a better question for you guys: Are people rational? Well, I think hell no! You see people are far from rational and expecting people to be rational is asking for trouble if you ask me. You see when it comes to things like social dynamics and group behaviour especially, you have to be a little smarter than that. I mean I understand you guys got this whole, freedom of speech thing going on in your alliance, no big deal there, I get it. But at the same time, man, you've got to be ready to be treated like the most moronic person who's part of the group you associate yourself with. Asking for people to be friendly to you, just because you are a great guy? I mean c'mon, man, let's be a little bit more realistic here: It's not gonna happen. I think you read the word 'rational' and decided I was Spock, dismissing things because they didn't fit my model of reality which is not the case. The rest of your post is a strawman based on that. Now, don't get me wrong, if it was an entertaining strawman I would engage with it but your entire forum persona bores me so I will not. And then you used that direction, as you have done in the past, to attempt reinforce your own assertions of your mastery of social skills, despite the very vocal negative responses to your misogyny and blatantly unfunny trolling. See this is exactly what I mean, man, and I was afraid you might be out there reading this message and I didn't want you to take it the wrong way, dude. |
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Ric Barlom
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Posted - 2013.05.09 01:32:00 -
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Mithridates VI wrote:Ric Barlom wrote:See this is exactly what I mean, man, and I was afraid you might be out there reading this message and I didn't want you to take it the wrong way, dude. ![Lol](https://forums.dust514.com/Images/Emoticons/ccp_lol.png) You do realise that quoting a post, asserting that it's proving your point and then implying that the poster was upset by your comments is trolling 101? See, here's the thing dude and let me perfectly honest with you here, but before that let me answer your question. No, I did not realise that, cause everybody who's been following my forum posts know that I didn't even know what trolling means until a short time ago, because let me tell you, I haven't spend a lot of times chatting in online communities before this, bro. This is a learning experience for me as much as it's for you, man. That being said, let me get back to the topic. The fact of the matter is that I didn't want to have a confrontation or an argument with you about my statement to begin with. I threw out my own opinion, as a man who knows a thing or two about social dynamics, to the general public who can in fact look at it a little bit more objectively. |
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Ric Barlom
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Posted - 2013.05.09 01:48:00 -
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Mithridates VI wrote:Ric Barlom wrote:See, here's the thing dude and let me perfectly honest with you here, but before that let me answer your question. No, I did not realise that, cause everybody who's been following my forum posts know that I didn't even know what trolling means until a short time ago, because let me tell you, I haven't spend a lot of times chatting in online communities before this, bro. This is a learning experience for me as much as it's for you, man. That being said, let me get back to the topic. The fact of the matter is that I didn't want to have a confrontation or an argument with you about my statement to begin with. I threw out my own opinion, as a man who knows a thing or two about social dynamics, to the general public who can in fact look at it a little bit more objectively. You're not having an argument with me, man. Welcome to communicating on the internet, by the way...but you haven't upset me with what, to be quite honest with you, looked like an attempt to do so. If it wasn't, I'd advise that you read your posts before making them and consider their tone. Just a little tip for the future ![Big smile](https://forums.dust514.com/Images/Emoticons/ccp_smile-big.png) If you're going to claim to know a thing or two about social dynamics, you are sure to understand that coming into a conversation which you are not a part of and immediately asserting that one of the participants lacks social skills before suggesting that your own are very well developed... is pretty much not done. So! I presumed the transgression intentional, an attempt at baiting, but instead it was just considered kind of adorable. Almost naively charming. Have no fear about having caused offence, though. We're as cool as we were before you entered the thread. Now we're speaking the same language here, bro, and this is exactly what I'm talking about, guys. And oh yeah, you're right about my tone, man, it's a masculine, strong tone no question about that what so ever, but the thing is that I pride myself as an objective, deep thinking straight talker and as we all know that's gonna cause some hate no matter where you are or no matter who you are. Now I've said it before and I'll say it again: I don't give a ****.
Now, Mithri, your situation is a little bit different though, as you don't wish to take this **** from the community cause it insults you, no big deal. I understand where you're coming from, bro. What I was trying to say though, is that you can't expect people to like you just because you're a great guy or because it's irrational for people to give you **** because you're associated with a certain group. Well the fact of the matter is that you'll be treated like you're the most moronic person in the group you've associated yourself with. |
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Ric Barlom
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Posted - 2013.05.09 02:03:00 -
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Mithridates VI wrote:Ric Barlom wrote:Now, Mithri, your situation is a little bit different though, as you don't wish to take this **** from the community cause it insults you, no big deal. I understand where you're coming from, bro. What I was trying to say though, is that you can't expect people to like you just because you're a great guy or because it's irrational for people to give you **** because you're associated with a certain group. Well the fact of the matter is that you'll be treated like you're the most moronic person in the group you've associated yourself with. Don't get me wrong. I don't have any expectation that stamping my feet and crying "why won't you all just be nicer to me" is a reasonable course of action, even if people were hostile towards me. They generally aren't, to be honest, in the thread SoTa quoted to start this one I was using my own membership within this group to highlight the fact that applying a blanket rule to the entire alliance is folly. I haven't found myself treated like the most moronic person in the group. What I was responding to was a blanket rage thread at the IMP tag, not anything targeted at me. My interaction with this community has largely remained unchanged by my affiliation with this group. It's best to read the OP as somewhat tongue in cheek. I became so accustomed to the people I was communicating with being familiar with this history that I didn't think to explain it, but I see how you could have gathered the impression that I was legitimately having a tantrum about not being treated right. It ain't so, brother... and if it were, asking people to be nice because it's the rational course of action would not be my response. In that case, man, everything seems to be all fine and dandy to me! |
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