DUST Search - Can Women Honestly Just Play Video Games?

DaBOMB dotCOM wrote:

I couldn't help myself, and I had to respond to this.

This game, as well as many other games, I've found that male players are a majority, so of course it's a given that you will hear things and come across certain people. By no means am I saying that this is the norm in all games, or that all guys treat females the same, but its just something that's expected.

Enough for my intro, I'll cut to the chase. I read your entire post, and by no means do I appreciate you using the term "girl gamer", or how you've chosen to single out individuals and put them on blast. If you're here to play the game, play the game. Identifying yourself constantly as a female is something that you've done multiple times on the forums. Now I'm not saying that this is something that you shouldn't do. All I'm trying to get at is that you're really just bringing all this upon yourself.

Continuing on, myself, and many other females on this game, have encountered multiple situations which are similar to yours. I can't speak on everyone's behalf, but I know that if I'm being spoken to in a way that I don't appreciate, I'm intelligent enough to end the conversation.

I'm not pointing fingers at you, but you are partly to blame. If you don't appreciate when someone's flirting with you, spreading your pictures, calling you "cute", or speaking in any other manner which you have mentioned in your 20 page long post, tell them to cut it out, and I'm sure that they will.

Also, if you aren't mature enough to keep your private life to yourself, I suggest that you stop posting on the forums. If you aren't intelligent enough to recognize why people have certain ideas of you, read the content in all your posts. I'm sure that even a blind man would be able to see why.

Oh! I almost forgot! As for posting constantly about how "problematic" your life is on this game, I suggest that you consider spending your time elsewhere.

Oh! I almost forgot again! Since you really, truly love shaming others publicly (in simpler terms putting people on blast) I've made sure that my response revolves entirely around you, so you know how it feels to be utterly humiliated.

GG.

When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard.


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Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 22:06:00 - [1] - Quote OMG another one. Whyyyyy. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 22:21:00 - [2] - Quote 0bi wan-jacobi wrote: Immortal John Ripper wrote: OMG another one. Whyyyyy. Read it... Most of it sounds like stuff she has reposted 5-6 times in the past before. More E-Romance. More drama. More tears. I am not trying to be a **** but it's getting kind of old. Seriously she is not the only female on this game. I have met plenty of females on dust who have faced their share of harassment but absolutely nothing to the level of what black ice has experienced. Most of her suffering is purely self imposed. If she was a smart , strong, independent woman who can make smart choices she would not be in such a mess. I don't care to go through every little detail of her drama once again. Please just let it end. I don't know how many more [public apology / E-Romance history / revalations / drama ]threads I can take. She is trying to play the victim and prolonging her drama. Sota made a little troll thread and here she comes back posting all of her private information and history on here. What does she think she is doing? giving the trolls ammo?? I don't even care to troll it in that way. I just want it to end. She needs to move on and let all this go and ignore +block everyone who she thought has wronged her and never mention them again. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 22:33:00 - [3] - Quote 0bi wan-jacobi wrote: Immortal John Ripper wrote: 0bi wan-jacobi wrote: Immortal John Ripper wrote: OMG another one. Whyyyyy. Read it... Most of it sounds like stuff she has reposted 5-6 times in the past before. More E-Romance. More drama. More tears. I am not trying to be a ** but it's getting kind of old. Seriously she is not the only female on this game. I have met plenty of females on dust who have faced their share of harassment but absolutely nothing to the level of what black ice has experienced. Most of her suffering is purely self imposed. If she was a smart , strong, independent woman who can make smart choices she would not be in such a mess. I don't care to go through every little detail of her drama once again. Please just let it end. I don't know how many more [public apology / E-Romance history / revalations / drama ]threads I can take. She is trying to play the victim and prolonging her drama. Sota made a little troll thread and here she comes back posting all of her private information and history on here. What does she think she is doing? giving the trolls ammo?? I don't even care to troll it in that way. I just want it to end. She needs to move on and let all this go and ignore +block everyone who she thought has wronged her and never mention them again. You're right bro, she must not be an intelligent woman. She must be a piece of and deserving of all she gets... You need some self reflection when a *** thread on a video game annoys you. Gtfo man, what an inconvenience for you! lol I never said she was a piece of deserving of anything. Your words not mine. And your words make you more of an ***** than me. I am trying to be realistic and tell her to get over her feelings because that is what people do. They fall down and they get back up and move on. All of this history and drama happened so freaking long ago and she has made dozens of threads about it in the war room. She has had hundreds of private conversations about this very subject with many many people. I must have heard her story 20 times by now. When you say it annoys me, yea it does kinda annoy me. She would be a fun person to be around if she wasn't stuck in the past 24/7. Last 5 conversations I had with her she would tell me" looks like I gotta change my password again." and they all were about heim! still about heim! I don't know what that means. Account sharing with heim? After all she claims he has done to her? after all this time. After so many disappointments? Nothing she has done has shown any sort of logical reasoning or intelligence. All advice given to her goes ignored. what else am I to do but give my 2 cents and leave? I'm done here. seriously. I hope she find the peace she seeks. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 22:47:00 - [4] - Quote One more thing. All you nerdy guys who can't get girlfriends in real life and harass women... online in a video game. gtfo. go outside. meet a real woman. Hold open doors. Spend your money on her, not yourself. Pull out chairs. Learn to cook, and clean. Learn to say please and thank you and please use protection until you can land a solid job to support a family. Don't make your moms raise your kids. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 22:53:00 - [5] - Quote 0bi wan-jacobi wrote: -snip- Lol okay. I'm done btw. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.02 23:02:00 - [6] - Quote Dust User wrote: CUSE TOWN333 wrote: I get hit on all the time by girls online and in video games. Its kind of how the world works men and woman flurt with each other and that is natural if you are heterosexuality. I enjoy the company of a female and they do of me because thats life. But._._._. yes men can be a little more aggressive mostly nerds on video games that Don't really talk to girls in real life. The simple thing to do in life is tell the person hitting on you that you don't like them like that and if they Can't handle that then be the bigger person and just move on. I see nothing wrong with a man showing his interest in a female as long as its with respect. The key is to be confident and love yourself and the right kind of man will like to be friends with your or more but its allway your choice. Weak men target females that are all so weak because they Wouldn't be able to get anywhere with a strong confident female. So the key to keeping cornballs from talking to you is love yourself and be confident and demand to be respected by anyone who is lucky enough that you let in your life. I go by the X out motto and as soon as someone has wronged me then they get Xed out of my life forever. And this is why you message cusetown for all your needs. Rather they be in game problems or you just need a shoulder to cry on Cuse is always there for you. Cuse has always been a MAN among men. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.03 00:53:00 - [7] - Quote DaBOMB dotCOM wrote: I couldn't help myself, and I had to respond to this. This game, as well as many other games, I've found that male players are a majority, so of course it's a given that you will hear things and come across certain people. By no means am I saying that this is the norm in all games, or that all guys treat females the same, but its just something that's expected. Enough for my intro, I'll cut to the chase. I read your entire post, and by no means do I appreciate you using the term "girl gamer", or how you've chosen to single out individuals and put them on blast. If you're here to play the game, play the game. Identifying yourself constantly as a female is something that you've done multiple times on the forums. Now I'm not saying that this is something that you shouldn't do. All I'm trying to get at is that you're really just bringing all this upon yourself. Continuing on, myself, and many other females on this game, have encountered multiple situations which are similar to yours. I can't speak on everyone's behalf, but I know that if I'm being spoken to in a way that I don't appreciate, I'm intelligent enough to end the conversation. I'm not pointing fingers at you, but you are partly to blame. If you don't appreciate when someone's flirting with you, spreading your pictures, calling you "cute", or speaking in any other manner which you have mentioned in your 20 page long post, tell them to cut it out, and I'm sure that they will. Also, if you aren't mature enough to keep your private life to yourself, I suggest that you stop posting on the forums. If you aren't intelligent enough to recognize why people have certain ideas of you, read the content in all your posts. I'm sure that even a blind man would be able to see why. Oh! I almost forgot! As for posting constantly about how "problematic" your life is on this game, I suggest that you consider spending your time elsewhere. Oh! I almost forgot again! Since you really, truly love shaming others publicly (in simpler terms putting people on blast) I've made sure that my response revolves entirely around you, so you know how it feels to be utterly humiliated. GG. This was perfect. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.03 17:13:00 - [8] - Quote Shadowed Cola wrote: Quote: Everyone wanted a relationship with me and I just wanted to be left alone lol, I could quote 3 or 4 more lines that I could say as a matter of fact is a lie. But this one's my favorite. For a person who wanted to be left 'alone' you sure do ***** a lot about not getting heard. lol and for someone who wants to be left alone. she sure does seem to date more dusters than anyone else on the game. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?
Immortal John Ripper 29	Posted - 2015.11.03 17:35:00 - [9] - Quote demens grimwulff wrote: In all honesty, though, I have experienced more homophobia on Dust then open sexism. I have not experienced much homophobia. I have made several gay friends on this game and even met some lesbians. We all pretty much got along. I mean sure there is always that random 14 year old who talks crap on the mic but that 14 year old talks crap to absolutely everybody. If there was a woman instead of a homosexual, he'd be sexist. If the guy had a japanese accent, he'd be a racist. Some people are just jerks to be jerks. This could also be an issue of the crowd I like to be apart of. Some of my corps have had age requirements in the past. Which helped put me in a bit of a more mature crowd. There are people I like to squad with and people I do not like to squad with. If someone says something that offends me, I won't like to be near them. I don't have to be near them and I don't ever have to hear their voice or see their face ever again if I so choose. Maybe I just turn my back on the homophobia because it is not worth my time and it doesn't have to be apart of my life. Only if you let it. I am straight but I have had gay men flirting with me. The only feeling I get is that of flattery and these gay men are usually mature enough to know that I have every right to like what I like and want what I want. I don't have to like them or return any feelings but if they think I'm cute. they are allowed to do that too. Nobody going to come to my house to **** me. As far as harassment is concerned. This is the internet. Every bit of harassment you face on here is ignorable. When you act like like blacky here and give out all your personal information and history... you are screaming for attention. She does not care about being ignored nor does she care to ignore people she thinks bother her. When Ratatti surpasses my like count, I'd like for my name to be changed to Captain Picard. Will you please be my #1?