she's seeing someone, or did one the side
just wait til she admits to sleeping with them then kick her out

or some ****

well, just be prepared if she tells you she slept with him
if you were in a relationship & she slept with him you need to leave her asap

just my opinion

I cannot post what I want to say because it is extremely crude advice involving acts generally demeaning to the female gender.

Good luck to you sir, I hope it all works out.

The dark side is strong with her. Don't join the path. Once you join it, it will forever change your destiny.

Its better to be alone then to be paranoid my friend.

Red flags are going up. If i was you id cut my losses and move on.

My girl and i have long distance relationship but i know we are solid till death do us part. Its something i know and is hard to explain.

All i can say is if your girl is accepting other guys hitting on her and all the kissy huggy stuff then secretly she is cheating or is going to.

Iv been in enough relationships to know if a girl is committed despite arguements and stuff. If she is having second thoughts then get out. If she really wants you she will fight for her loyalty.

Seems that you finding info that's good and I say that because you could just be left out in the dark about anything that she's doing but you took matters into your own hands and while you know she's going to deny it , the best thing that you can do is move on ... somewhat like it seems that she's doing but she's not being a real woman and being honest about it and trying to talk to you about what caused her to feel the way that she does , that's making her feel the need for another man's attention .

Most women are always looking for something bigger and better , it's just in their nature ... now you have some that know what they want and when they get a good man , their willing to do whatever it takes to keep him and it seems like you really like this girl but I can only tell you that the best thing that you could do IMO is , start to look out for yourself in this matter and maybe start to take measures to plan for life after this girl .

Start to date but make it casual and nothing serious but don't lead on to her about what your doing because it seems that she's playing a role ( in concerns of looking out for her own interests ) and maybe it's time for you to do the same .

My experience has shown me that most long distance relationships just don't work out for the most part and for a woman , they crave attention and if your not around then their app to look elsewhere for it and that's not to say that your not a good guy and that your not taking care of business but they need to always feel wanted and if your not around then she's just going to get that attention that your not giving her from someone else .

That's not your fault because like you say , your working and trying to build a better life for yourself but maybe part of that is just weeding out the distractions that you might encounter because a good woman would respect what your doing and compromise but I just don't see too many people out here like that anymore .

It's just like troops getting deployed and later on finding out that their spouse / chick / woman was servicing other men while you were serving your country .

Do what you gotta do for yourself and if that's just coming out and telling her how you feel and what you believe is going on or just distancing yourself and dating different women while your with her but whatever you do , don't let yourself get fooled .

Trust yourself , you know what you should really do ... it's up to you to not be afraid to do that , whatever it is .

It's not going to work if you don't have trust ( if she's giving you a reason or reasons not to trust her ) , that's JMO .

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