I tried putting this matter on the fextralife forums but as a security question it asks you for the admin's name, I'm sure it would be easy to procure but when I am frustrated enough to rant on forums about a fundamental part of the game that I think needs work I don't wanna have to stop to create an account much less stop that process to go hunt down 1 person.

I think dark souls 2's co-op system is stupid, it works great in some cases because there's lots of people around and I can always get help when I need it, but when you're trying to play with your friends it's a damn nightmare, at a minimum there should be a privacy setting. In DS1 there wasn't this much of a problem because there wasn't that many people, you could just go hide you're little summon sign and tell your buddy to go there, but with the huge population you get picked up by randoms instantly, which is great and annoying at the same time and there's no way around it.

This was mainly just to rant but if there's a way I could recommend this to the company I'd be glad to hear it.

Did aomeone say, TEARS? I love tears.