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Da Cameo
Dogs of War Gaming
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Posted - 2014.01.10 23:23:00 -
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CUSE TOWN333 wrote:CELESTA AUNGM wrote:CUSE TOWN333 wrote:because when i used to play bf3 there were tons of girls on that game and they were fun to squad up with. Girls are so much more laid back and calm and don't scream in my ear rageing about getting shot by a rail rifle. And if you are a girl no need to be shy on the mic when you join are squad we enjoy your company.   Yessss, Cuse. There are lots of gals who play Dust.  I do believe I AM more laid back than MANY of the fellas---those who yell on the MIC when it's set to "Team Voice" take their RECREATION games way too uptightly, and know their stress-complaints are being heard all over the match, when their mouths would be better off helping to GUIDE the teammates instead of raging about them.  Yes, I DO use voice-changer religiously, to blur my male buddies from trying to guess my age (NOT a spring chicken) and discourage them from any fantasizing about clone-dating and hot plasma showers with a girl-merc---some players' enthusiasm to squad up with you again and again, or get super chatty, well... it does kinda feel like many video game players are looking for soul mates to dream about sometimes. Please no, guys,...it's just a video game.  And YES, I am very shy on the MIC... so shy other players often think my MIC is broken, LOL! But I'm trying to learn from some of the REALLY GOOD COMM matches I've heard,... and LESS chatter tends to be MORE useful than more. So I can't guarantee you a wonderful conversation, but I'm sure it'll be fun to squad with your crew, Cuse. Nice to know you're around too!! That's what i was saying with to many men on one team,squad,or corp it leads to rageing yelling and over all bad game play. That's why girls make the best leaders on shooting games because they stay calm in the fire it evens out the team and maybe its just me but i don't like hanging out with dudes 24/7.
Another reason why ladies might choose to stay silent in game... The assumption that girls can't play video games, and being told to " Get back in the kitchen, and make a sandwich. ". On one hand gamers ask for girls to play, and on the other chide them for doing so.
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Da Cameo
Dogs of War Gaming
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Posted - 2014.01.11 02:13:00 -
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Leonid Tybalt wrote:Da Cameo wrote:CUSE TOWN333 wrote:CELESTA AUNGM wrote:CUSE TOWN333 wrote:because when i used to play bf3 there were tons of girls on that game and they were fun to squad up with. Girls are so much more laid back and calm and don't scream in my ear rageing about getting shot by a rail rifle. And if you are a girl no need to be shy on the mic when you join are squad we enjoy your company. Yessss, Cuse. There are lots of gals who play Dust. I do believe I AM more laid back than MANY of the fellas---those who yell on the MIC when it's set to "Team Voice" take their RECREATION games way too uptightly, and know their stress-complaints are being heard all over the match, when their mouths would be better off helping to GUIDE the teammates instead of raging about them. Yes, I DO use voice-changer religiously, to blur my male buddies from trying to guess my age (NOT a spring chicken) and discourage them from any fantasizing about clone-dating and hot plasma showers with a girl-merc---some players' enthusiasm to squad up with you again and again, or get super chatty, well... it does kinda feel like many video game players are looking for soul mates to dream about sometimes. Please no, guys,...it's just a video game. And YES, I am very shy on the MIC... so shy other players often think my MIC is broken, LOL! But I'm trying to learn from some of the REALLY GOOD COMM matches I've heard,... and LESS chatter tends to be MORE useful than more. So I can't guarantee you a wonderful conversation, but I'm sure it'll be fun to squad with your crew, Cuse. Nice to know you're around too!! That's what i was saying with to many men on one team,squad,or corp it leads to rageing yelling and over all bad game play. That's why girls make the best leaders on shooting games because they stay calm in the fire it evens out the team and maybe its just me but i don't like hanging out with dudes 24/7. Another reason why ladies might choose to stay silent in game... The assumption that girls can't play video games, and being told to " Get back in the kitchen, and make a sandwich. ". On one hand gamers ask for girls to play, and on the other chide them for doing so. So... You're saying that girls need babying and for all the guys to hold their hand to be able to play videogames? Isn't that an even more sexist view? Personally I don't give a crap about gender in gaming. I don't sit around wishing for more girls to play (that sounds more like the behaviour of a teenaged virgin boy who secretly wishes to find a woman to **** through gaming in tyst typically convoluted teenager way), but I don't actively try to exclude them either. And frankly that old bit about "getting back in the kitchen" is hardly a genuine view most users of it have. It's just a ***** test, to see if the reciever is gonna act like a crybaby or if she's gonna talk back like she's got a pair (figuratively that is). This is pretty common in testosterone fuelled male culture. Guys tend to tell eachother A LOT more demeaning and humiliating things as a part of the jargong than they ever say to a girl who wants in. Girls can't go around expecting to get politely invited in to a male dominated enviroment, and expect to be treated with the utmost civility and good manners. If you want in a group of men engaging in their pefered hobby, sport, game or whatever you have to MUSCLE in and claim space. Demand respect without giving in to the provocative tests by spinning them around and sending them right back. And I for one am a firm believer that girls are perfectly capable of doing that (some of my best friends, acquaintances and lovers are women who've proven capable of such feats). But they didn't learn it from some "good guy" who offered to hold their hand and who cried out for all other "insensitive men" to "behave themselves".
Your assumption is incorrect. Mine was just an opinion about, one of the many reasons why, what could drive them to choose not to speak up more often.
You're right gender in gaming doesn't matter. It's the game that everyone came to play together ( or, not ) that does, and enjoying yourself. We all log on to kick back, and have fun! Regardless of our play style, or skill level.
That " old bit " might happen more often than you'd think, in all seriousness. I know several ladies who are excellent gamers, and have a pair. Figuratively speaking, of course.
" Politely invited "? Wouldn't that statement be accurately assessed as sexist? They were well aware of the fact that they were stepping into a testosterone driven environment when they chose begin gaming, at least the ones I can account for.
I've never known any individual to learn anything because it was easy. Life is hard.
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Da Cameo
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Posted - 2014.01.11 21:01:00 -
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Leonid Tybalt wrote:Da Cameo wrote:
Your assumption is incorrect. Mine was just an opinion about, one of the many reasons why, what could drive them to choose not to speak up more often.
You're right gender in gaming doesn't matter. It's the game that everyone came to play together, or, not ) that does, and enjoying yourself. We all log on to kick back, and have fun! Regardless of our play style, or skill level.
That " old bit " might happen more often than you'd think, in all seriousness. I know several ladies who are excellent gamers, and have a pair. Figuratively speaking, of course. They expect you to be yourself.
" Politely invited "? Wouldn't that statement be accurately assessed as sexist? They were well aware of the fact that they were stepping into a testosterone driven environment when they chose to begin gaming, at least the ones I can account for.
I've never known any individual to learn anything because it was easy. Life is hard.
No it's not sexist. Im just saying that if you're "turned off" by multiplayer videogaming because you think that other players are "rude" or didn't "make you feel more welcome", then I don't really care what gender you are because I won't feel sorry to see you go. For some reason though, it seems women are a more inclined to cite such reasons when they don't want to play multiplayer videogames. I don't care to speculate why it seems to be more common among women than men (there's probably a buttload of theories about that out there already, with varyint degrees of credibility), it's just an observation I've made and found that many people tend to agree with due to similar observations of their own.
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