DUST Search - can i get some bad advice

Helel Griever wrote:

Shadow Drake082 wrote:

calvin b wrote:

From someone with a lot of worldly experience I have been told this by many woman from different cultures. Try this, woman like to be treated like they are not worth anything, woman love A**h**** and those who blow them off. Woman are wired for the chase, that's why nice guys finish last. Nice guys are to eager to please and are very easy to find. Woman love the bad boy, the one who doesn't play by the rules. Prove me wrong, think about all the F***** up S*** guys do to woman and they keep coming back, its a security thing. They want some one who can be that guy, strong, self assured and not willing to take S*** from anyone.

My advise, if she has a friend no matter how ugly you bang the S*** out it. It will make the other girl jealous and do not call either one for a week. If they ask were you been, shrug em off and say I have been around and walk away. The icing on the cake, bang the mom and if she has a sister of age, bang the S*** out of her too. Make the girl you want, want you more by letting everyone else have you. Be the jerk, do not play by the rules and F*** anyone who gets in your way. Prove me wrong and play nice guy and you will be in the dreaded friend zone and then you will go all emo and cry because someone else is banging the S*** out of your dream girl. Remember nice guys finish last for a reason.

I have never understood why the above is true. I have seen it all the time in high school all those years ago...

It probably has to do with the fact that females (of all species) prefer strong, capable breeding partners (rag on me if you want, you know it's true) to mate with and rear healthy offspring. Regrettably, in most cases regarding humans, these strong males tend to be a**holes/****s/all-around-jack-offs. Which is why us good guys tend to be "friend zoned" to damned much Sad


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bunnywink Villore Sec Ops Gallente Federation 342	Posted - 2013.11.15 04:19:00 - [1] - Quote That's just a nice way for her to say she isn't interested in you. Also, "friend zone" is a load of horse ****. Please don't be a Nice GuyGäó and just move on.
bunnywink Villore Sec Ops Gallente Federation 342	Posted - 2013.11.15 04:20:00 - [2] - Quote Helel Griever wrote: Shadow Drake082 wrote: calvin b wrote: From someone with a lot of worldly experience I have been told this by many woman from different cultures. Try this, woman like to be treated like they are not worth anything, woman love Ah and those who blow them off. Woman are wired for the chase, that's why nice guys finish last. Nice guys are to eager to please and are very easy to find. Woman love the bad boy, the one who doesn't play by the rules. Prove me wrong, think about all the F* up S* guys do to woman and they keep coming back, its a security thing. They want some one who can be that guy, strong, self assured and not willing to take S* from anyone. My advise, if she has a friend no matter how ugly you bang the S* out it. It will make the other girl jealous and do not call either one for a week. If they ask were you been, shrug em off and say I have been around and walk away. The icing on the cake, bang the mom and if she has a sister of age, bang the S* out of her too. Make the girl you want, want you more by letting everyone else have you. Be the jerk, do not play by the rules and F* anyone who gets in your way. Prove me wrong and play nice guy and you will be in the dreaded friend zone and then you will go all emo and cry because someone else is banging the S* out of your dream girl. Remember nice guys finish last for a reason. I have never understood why the above is true. I have seen it all the time in high school all those years ago... It probably has to do with the fact that females (of all species) prefer strong, capable breeding partners (rag on me if you want, you know it's true) to mate with and rear healthy offspring. Regrettably, in most cases regarding humans, these strong males tend to be aholes/****s/all-around-jack-offs. Which is why us good guys tend to be "friend zoned" to damned much . LOL. I'm sorry (not really), but you guys are idiots.
bunnywink Villore Sec Ops Gallente Federation 344	Posted - 2013.11.15 16:10:00 - [3] - Quote Helel Griever wrote: Any particular reason why we're idiots? Calvin B is the biggest idiot here. I'm sorry for lumping you in with him, Helel. Your perspective in particular may just be due to inexperience. and that's understandable. Let me break this down for all the "good guys" here though. Hopefully it will prompt some much needed self-reflection. Let's start with the sense of entitlement that self-professed Nice GuysGäó suffer from. When your actions are primarily motivated by attempts to passively manipulate a woman into a relationship or sex, are you really a decent person? You are basically treating the friendship with your object of desire as unvaluable unless there is a pay-off in the form of a romantic or sexual relationship. You can't trade your niceness coins for anything. Nobody is owed friendship, love, or sex. http://xkcd.com/513/ Stop romantically or sexually fixating on a single person before they express mutual interest in you. If you like somebody: make it known. If there is no mutual interest: move on. It's unhealthy, disrespectful (obviously they don't know that you would be the best partner for them, amirite?), and downright creepy to stick around thinking you can change somebody's mind. It's deceitful to make someone believe your friendship is genuine when it clearly is not. Calvin B's biggest mistake above is believing that he's cracked some universal code for what women want. He seems to think that all women want an aggressive alpha male because of paleolithic conceptualizations on mating. Unfortunately (or fortunately), human interactions are much more complex than that and you can't simply justify modern behavior by inferring to evolutionary mating strategies. Everybody is different. Some things will work for some people and not for others. As a side note, recent studies have shown that humor and intelligence appear to be more attractive to women than aggression and testosterone-related ideas of "masculinity". (1) (2)